Because you have a bad emotional management , that's why you need reasons and you escapes from stress. If you do not improve in this , abstention will be useless. Every time you have a bad emotion you'll need porn / easy pleasures I say you , you should live stress in a different way. Don't run from it , don't be terrified from it. Plus if you look at porn ,your sexual problems with your wife will remain.
Well i would love to go for a walk, But i’m scared to get Robbed or that someone try to hit me. Even though i’m male. I’m scared from Prople and i always look my back when i go out. I only drive my car. I hate walking because anything can happens like you can get Robbed or anything. I have this weird Feeling of Insecurity whenever i go Out
Yes everytime i get Hurt i PMO because i hate the Feeling of ‘Hurt’ Also talking about my Wife, i prefer Porn than having real sex. In porn you get to see hot girls, and the orgasm is extreme, unique,powerful While having real sex is : numb,not exciting,feel like i should’ve Pmo’d instead of doing it everytime. i miss that unique and powerful amazing orgasm that i used to get from porn...
Also i found out that my wife doesn’t even love me and married me for my Money. She’s not even with me right now and i’m all alone and suffering. She’s planning to quit me because i don’t have anymore money and cannot satisfy her desires
The first porn orgams are really amazing. Over time, unfortunately, porn no longer has the same effect. It desensitizes us. That's why a person looks for extreme contents and fetishes , that's why real sex do not longer seems exciting. Also vanilla porn is no more exciting after years. A brief porn video will not change your stress in long time and will not change your relationship difficulties What i'm telling you , porn can not satisfy yourself really. There is not an extreme infinite pleasure in this world. Embrace reality , live the moment
in my case , i always seek reasons that why i shouldn't relapse but here in your case u have all the reasons to relapse according to u and u ant reasons why u shouldn't relapse . this is weird but think bout your life after relapse. you will feel some instant happiness on relapse but what if u got into chaser as my life get miserable sometime after relapse ..
Yes , the first porn is the best of the best. The first time you discover a new category. Let's face it, with all the videos we've seen so far, we've already had our best orgasm thanks to porn. And we can't get another like it back. Going back to seeing sex as the best of the best is what makes the most sense. Because also for me , after time sex was boring. Porn seems better , new videos , new girls, but this novelties doesn't work forever. Otherwise it would be the perfect drug! After months in porn , with extreme use , also porn became boring. That's the real tragedy.... Reboot is the last chance we have to feel back great orgasm with another real person.
...unfortunately . you watch 100 porn after abstinence, the first is great, the last is a pain ... and you feel bad because it no more gives that pleasure
Yeah but real sex with the same person again and again is much more boring than Porn where u’ve got to see new girls in each Videos and that are a Lot Hotter than girls in real life.
That stream of constant novelty is what gets you hooked in the first place (and part of what is so damaging). You'll develop tolerance over time though. There's a reason that so many porn addicts develop deviant fetishes. Just take a look in the "problematic sexual behavior" section of this forum and see for yourself.
Try transmuting that sexual energy into your muscles and get a good vibe from it. Also if you get on a good streak you will crave a real womans touch. Maybe you can use this burning desire to rebuild a connection with your wife. Porn is a quick dopamine hit but if you hold your seed you will definitely want to have the real thing
I would love to but to have real muscles we must train a lot and i have Fat in my Body, i’m lazy af, and i don’t have energy i only have energy to masturbate and nothing else!!
This thread and alexandre bois is seeming very troll like. He clearly has no motivation to change. He seems to be inciting instead of reaching for answers.
It is absolutely not. I just need help and that’s what this forum is all about. I just want to express my self and my feelings because i have no friends to tell them about this
