I started not doing nofap for a while, but I am back, more motivated than ever before

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Tomatoes are fruits, Dec 4, 2021.

  1. LimitBreak9

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    Its not over yet, keep fighting!
     
  2. Tomatoes are fruits

    Tomatoes are fruits Fapstronaut

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    Yes, not over! I will keep on fighting. I got this don't even worry, I will do this
     
  3. Tomatoes are fruits

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    Where is @stanza88 ? He hasnt checked back in a while :(
     
  4. Today is my day 2 of no PMO and I cameback again because I couldn’t control myself as I went back to PMO and that is why I keep relasping and I couldn’t control it and that is why I deleted my NoFap account 4 month ago and I came back again to retry my goal again. By the time when I came back to relasping to go back to porn and masturbation, I moved on to paying girls who do video to video facetime sex with girls like Filipina girls or any girl who do facetime sex as they masturbate together. Since I no longer pay girls who do facetime sex I met on social medias to do cybersex, I quit that which is a good thing and now I need to start quit porn and masturbation so that I can challenge my goal to retry again, reboot my brain, and move on with a better life without fapping. Because I’m staying away of what was I’m doing, I did use the screen time to block porn sites on my iPhone. If you have iPhone use the screen time to block porn sites from the settings to get away from it, if you have android download a VPN that can block porn sites, and if you use a computer download a porn blocker app to block porn sites. I hope you can try again so that you don’t relaspe again!
     
  5. Tomatoes are fruits

    Tomatoes are fruits Fapstronaut

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    It's not really porn most of the time, I just fap to models generally. I can't stop fapping to just pictures, but I can resist porn. What should i do then?
     
  6. stanza88

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    I'm here man, i'm really busy at work and i'm not able to be as active as before. I would like to give you the help and the support you need but i kind of feel you didn't take this really seriously. I hope you won't feel judged or attacked but i'm sure that if you really want to look into this addiction you need to change your habits, your behaviors and your goals; forget stay clean 7/ 30/ 50 days, do it for yourself, for improve your life, don't count the days, count the small victory you do every day by changing bad habits in good habits and your path will be brighter
     
  7. Tomatoes are fruits

    Tomatoes are fruits Fapstronaut

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    Sorry if I came off as not serious. I'm trying my best, I'm just not very experienced and I don't really know what I'm doing. I'll try to do better
     
  8. RadiantFalcon382

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  9. stanza88

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    I'm not pushing you down, i would love to give you the strength that you need, or a hug or look you in the eyes and tell you that you can do better. I would love to push that button in you that switch your way of thinking from "i will try" to "i will fucking do it". Don't be sorry, mostly not at me, I'm really would love to help as much people as i can but it's hard trough a forum , i'm trying to do my best in that as well ;)
     
  10. Tomatoes are fruits

    Tomatoes are fruits Fapstronaut

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    I almost just relapsed, I was so close, but I thought about it for a couple of minutes and I was like "ok, what would my reasonable self say. I would not want my current self to relapse, it would regret it a lot". However, I also looked at a couple of pictures of the faces of a lot of very pretty girls. That doesnt count as relapse does it?
     
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  11. Tomatoes are fruits

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    I don't know why, but everything is just making me so mad, like the slightest thing is making me very mad and I'm not sure why. It's not like I need to fap right now, I feel good, it's just that I feel very short tempered. Is this something that happens in nofap? Or am I just not having a good day
     
  12. I think after today I start my 6th day. Having thoughts but pushing them away like a persistent fly. I WILL BE BETTER
     
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  13. stanza88

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    As far as i know there are correlation but who knows, anyway congratulations for staying strong! Maybe you need to release your energies in some healthier way than fapping...i use to run or workout and trust me it's miraculous
     
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  14. Tomatoes are fruits

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    Yes, I'm an athlete as well. I workout a lot, and often times I relapse because I reason out that I need to reward myself after a relapse. I didn't fap today, which is good, I'll make it through :)
     
  15. Tomatoes are fruits

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    Also, I accidentally searched nofap.com on my school google account using my home computer because I forgot to switch google accounts. Do you think I will get in trouble? Is nofap something that people can get in trouble for within the school?
     
  16. Tomatoes are fruits

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    I almost relapsed this morning, I stayed in bed for too long, looked at some pictures of very pretty girls, and thought about porn, but I stepped in the cold shower and I have no urges now. I need to get out of bed faster
     
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    I relapsed actually :(. I got way too turned on, I'm sorry :(
     
  18. Tomatoes are fruits

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    I hate that I relapsed, now my head just feels super dizzy and I can't think straight. I will definitely not be relapsing again. This is terrible
     
  19. Tomatoes are fruits

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    Relapsed again today :(. I feel terrible, shouldn't have done it, and I have so many tests coming up. That's ok, I am more motivated than ever before, I am going ot make it to 90 days no matter what. I know I've said that like 30 times already, but this time feels a little different. I BELIEVE IN MYSELF. I honestly don't feel too much brain fog for some reason, but we'll see, I hope I don't have too much for tomorrow.
     
  20. Tomatoes are fruits

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    Wow, I just listened to a podcast that talked about how to succeed nofap, and how to gain all the motivation. I believe I got nofap under my wing, it has nothing against me. I am going to destroy this challenge.