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I really need a cuddle

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Red_Toaster, Oct 25, 2018.

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  1. Oct 25, 2018 #1
    Red_Toaster

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    Like seriously, I really need something more substantial than the usual 3-second long friendship-hug I get at the end of a night out.

    I have had two proper cuddles this year and that's not enough.

    A man needs a cuddle.

    I was doing fine stoically pushing through my awkward attempt at moving abroad and making friends and dating casually until I read this dumb article about how effective physical contact is supposed to be for relieving stress and anxiety, and now all I can think about is cuddling.

    It's not even sexual, I just really want to blast the AC and put on a warm sweater and be the big spoon for a girl with nice-smelling hair.

    How do I make this impossible dream a reality?
     
    Red_Toaster, Oct 25, 2018
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  2. Oct 25, 2018 #2
    AUTiger7222

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    I completely understand where you're coming from bro. I'm desperate for that too. It's not sexual. It's just a comfort thing that makes you feel really good and special.
     
    AUTiger7222, Oct 25, 2018
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  3. Oct 26, 2018 #3
    countitjoy5

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    A man needs a cuddle? Seriously? I guess trolls need loving too, huh
     
    countitjoy5, Oct 26, 2018
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  4. Oct 26, 2018 #4
    AUTiger7222

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    Why the sense of hostility? Some guys crave more physical contact than others. There's nothing wrong with that.
     
    AUTiger7222, Oct 26, 2018
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  5. Oct 26, 2018 #5
    countitjoy5

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    I apologize for being hostile, it just seemed strange thing to say, never know who the trolls are - the post I responded to prior was definitely a troll.
     
    countitjoy5, Oct 26, 2018
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  6. Oct 26, 2018 #6
    Ra's Al Ghul

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    There are actually cuddle providers out there if that's your thing.
     
    Ra's Al Ghul, Oct 26, 2018
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  7. Oct 26, 2018 #7
    Red_Toaster

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    Mate I'm not a troll I'm really lonely and I'm better at trivialising my feelings with shit humour than actually adressing how bad the total lack of physical intimacy in my life makes me feel :\
     
    Red_Toaster, Oct 26, 2018
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  8. Oct 26, 2018 #8
    AUTiger7222

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    Are you dead serious? I've never heard of such but I'd sure like to get in on that.
     
    AUTiger7222, Oct 26, 2018
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  9. Oct 26, 2018 #9
    AUTiger7222

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    I feel ya dude. It sucks.
     
    AUTiger7222, Oct 26, 2018
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  10. Oct 26, 2018 #10
    overclocked

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    No money, no honey :D
     
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  11. Oct 26, 2018 #11
    Atlanticus

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    You sounded sincere to me.

    But, honestly, guy.... R.E.B.O.O.T before looking to others for well-being or deflecting to S-subs. IMO, it's more relevant and effective (in the long run)...

    Best of success to ya!
     
    Atlanticus, Oct 26, 2018
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  12. Oct 26, 2018 #12
    Atlanticus

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    By the way, in general, cuddling is the best... risky business, but fab.
     
    Atlanticus, Oct 26, 2018
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  13. Oct 26, 2018 #13
    Ra's Al Ghul

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    Cuddling will just lead to more.
     
    Ra's Al Ghul, Oct 26, 2018
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