Hi everybody. I am new here, but a friend of mine suggested I join after having ED problems and mentioning to him that I can spend 4-5 hours watching porn a day if I am not careful. I have been with my wife for going on 17 years and about 2 years ago started having ED problems which led to me having performance anxiety for a few months as well. I had no problem fapping and maintaining an erection by my self watching porn. But when it came to sex I would get hard and only keep hard for like a minute or two. I do have high blood pressure which can lead to this problem too, I typically take vitamins on the weekend to help with the blood flow and stay erect. This works 99% of the time and I dont have a problem. That being said though. My wife is at work today and I just spent 4 hours watching porn online. I only came once, but still sucked away four hours of my day. I also find myself looking at porn on my phone at work. I realize I have a problem and want to change. I know I can overcome it. Thanks
Kudos to you for reaching out. Your wife is fortunate to have a husband who is willing to look at his behavior. As a partner dealing with her SO's porn abuse, I can tell you that to rebuild trust, telling the truth is your only option. Shame is not your friend in this process.
Hey, Consider putting some porn blockers up on your computer and having a hobby that you can do or work on when you are not busy... the problem is "time" and the time you have to spend 4 hours on the computer screen rather than using that energy somewhere else . The Truth Will Always Set You Free .