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I need help

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Greatkingrat, Nov 5, 2017.

  1. Greatkingrat

    Greatkingrat Fapstronaut

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    Lately I've been stuck in a rut. For the past couple weeks, I would relapse once. So far I've gone a week without doing so, and intend to never PMO again. However, I've just been feeling sad lately. After playing Kingdom Hearts for seven hours straight today and yesterday, I realized there is a problem. Even though I have almost rebooted from porn(it can't even turn me on it's so repulsive) there is this dissatisfaction brewing. So I've decided that on the weekend I will only play 1 hour max per day. Weekdays I probably wouldn't have enough time. It's tough but I need to make the change.
    I'm more confident in myself without a doubt since starting nofap, but not by a ton. For example, I was very recently a groomsmen for my cousins wedding. At the reception, every one was dancing but I didn't go up there. My cousin even said I should go up and I was, but halfway into it I just turned around and pitifully walked back to my seat. I don't want that happening anymore. I want to expirence the full benefits of nofap. So I'll limit video games, do self esteem exercises and try running more. Any thing else I should try? I made it to 90 days before and feel like I should feel better than I do now
     
  2. Decoder™

    Decoder™ Fapstronaut

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    You could try mentalizing your dream self after and before sleep.

    Join a group of people who constantly strive to get out of their confort zone.

    Something that worked for me greatly in the past was helping people that were experiencing the same struggle, eventually your brain gets into gear and realise you are the one out there doing the work and starts acting accordingly.
     

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