I have known about the "benefits" of not masturbating for 15 years.

As a teenager I had a group of friends. I would have been about 15. We went to under 18s clubs all over Sydney at this glorious stage of my life. I was never good with the girls. Some of us did get some girls.

But only one of my friends, stole each and every girls affection. Girls other friends picked up from these innocent clubs. It was all very innocent back then, we were all virgins.

This led to an incredible amount of jealousy and the group in years to come had divided. This unique individual had not been gentle about his conquests of his friends object of affection and boasted that none can compete with him for he had "powers".

We became, and still are, best of friends.

He never kept it a secret. He had alway's hinted to all of us "You can't defeat me, I have 3 months powers!". He had always insisted that source of his "powers" was his abstinence from masturbation.

Everyone thought he was a looney, including me.

Yet he consistently won over each and every girl the group had encountered. Pride, I believe, was why no one believed him. He could neither read nor write, he was uneducated - what does he know? Far less than us, that's for sure.

As the group imploded with the jealousy, loyalties had split. I had sided with this unique individual, for we were both from broken homes and all others had secure families - we were roommates now - I had already moved out of home. We had become very close.

It is now just he and I - odd now that I think about it. I had hated him the most when he joined the group and he tried to convince everyone that the group should not have someone like me. More than one occasion I had violently confronted him. In hindsight he was correct - I had grown to be an unpredictable, angry and violent teenager (broken home etc.)

In this time when it was just he and I - I had witnessed at first hand his charm and maturity. I was maturing and became more observant. I always thought girls just like him for whatever reason. Now I can see that he had the capability to manipulate any situation that girls will like him over any other competitors.

"Now do you believe me? Why not try for yourself, don't take my word for it - you'll see" He said to me in a moment of reflection.

My life has never been the same again.

This was before the Internet it was the early to late nineties. In the years to come, I have witnessed the porn epidemic destroy society as we both knew it.

 

What is PMO?

It has and always will be about sex and becoming alpha male - nature insists.

 

I have convinced a few people to try this technique. One of the most unusual case is of a friend that had abstained for a couple of months and believed it was doing nothing for him.

Yet from what we could all see - he was a different person. From complete loser to smooth operator, yet he had not realised. I also remember that the effect at first seems like nothing had changed, but truth is everything has changed.

One recent roommate went from never leaving his room, ever. To earning the admiration of a group of young people in a group discussion - for me it was obvious. He seem to have no clue that he could never do that - ever - in the past. When I drew attention to that moment he seemed surprised.

I concluded that he never knew how much of a wanker loser he was - he was so far from normal he had not realised. When he started to act like normal - he had believed that he was always capable of this. Not true - without abstaining he would never have left his room.

I told him what I thought of him when I first met him. He was a weirdo, awkward and clueless. In stark contrast to that night where he was the centre of conversation with full admiration of the people around him. He seemed to have presumed he was always capable of this.

He farted in shock when I told him the truth.

They say wanking makes you blind - not in a literal sense. But mark my word, it is true in every other way.

 

I was a clueless arrogant little shit as a teenager - never able to get girls. I go to the clubs now and what do I see?

Pretty boys - all wankers, beneath those nice clothes is someone that will be in his room with his trousers around his ankles.

I'll give you an example. I can't imagine the characters in hollywood movies with their trousers around their ankle - I couldn't imagine Superman the same with this image.

You are what you do in life. If you wank, you are a wanker, and boy oh boy can a girls evolutionary subconscious instinct pick up on that.

 

It's the new you!

The old you was too afraid to look deep into a girls eyes to gauge what she thought about you. The new you doesn't care. Looks deep into a girls eyes without ever looking away.

She is confounded by your eye's - your gaze hypnotises her - she must look away. Her sister can sense the chemistry and becomes jealous, she wants you for herself. Soon other girls notice the sisters behavior - they too start to become jealous. Soon you will own the whole club - but you must stay strong.

Look in the mirror. Those moonlit eyes were dull and lifeless 10 days ago - now they are shinning like a star.

One of my exes looked me in the eyes after a session of great sex. "You're so ugly" she states. "I know" I replied, "why are you with me?"

"I dunno" she replied.

 

All females are drawn to innocence. Innocence is what one becomes when one no longer engage in any activities that could be deemed a corruption of innocence.

All females are also drawn to alpha.

By not signalling any form of sexual activity to your brain, your brain is more innocent (like a child). It also triggers the physiological process of evolution for your mind and body to hone itself to become alpha - you obviously have not mated, natural survival insists you must mate. In order to mate you must demonstrate why you are better than other males to your potential mate.

After heavy discipline of abstinence (lifestyle o/haul - this is much easier when you have the energy of a child) one becomes some kind of an innocent alpha male. Much like a young male lion, deposing an old alpha lion and for the first time has access to females - but knows not what to do thereafter. The older female will guide him for he is still innocent.

With that much of natures power coursing through your veins - you become anyone you want to become. If the other male wants to play bad-boy to impress, you can play good boy better than he can play bad boy - you win.

If the other male wants to play good-boy you can play bad-boy better than he can play good boy. If he is serious - you are funny, if he is funny then you are serious. All to expose the "fake" alpha and to instill yourself as the true alpha.

Simply you can be everything the girl wants you to be - not act - become, is, am.

You have all of evolutions mating game available to you. Artistic? Warrior? Intelligence? Nurturing? Humans play all of natures mating games - you can attack from any angle, you will always find a partner.

The real you is merely whatever persona is suitable for the circumstance. There is no "you", for you are everyman that has ever existed before you.

Faced against such awesome capabilties - I have seen the most impressive species of male made a fool of in front of girls by my friend.

When he exclaimed "I have three months power!" it was something I remember. At that time he would have accumulated 3 months since his last failure to stay pure. One will always fail at one point or another, but one must always keep trying. The goal is not to 3 months, it is forever.

One MUST run faster, jump higher, and be stronger - this would be the logical conclusion after one understands the female mind. Striving for this comes easy once you expose the new you to the world and the world approves - motivation is then much easier to stay physical.

On the other hand if your competitor can jump higher, is stronger or faster but is a wanker. The innocent one will still win for a healthy mind is unbeatable.

We laughed so hard when we first saw that Seinfeld episode. George becomes a genius? Some truth there for sure.