I have been trying to quit PMO for 2 years now

How about trying to have a relationship with one of those girls instead of fantasizing?

 

A couple of things:

1. Something that I am learning on this journey of mine is that you cannot control what you see in real life; I have had to learn to live with it and not let it control me. Just like anything else in the rebooting process: this takes willpower and determination.

2. A great piece of advice that I have heard toward a friend of mine who is still single in his 30's: keep focusing on yourself and improving yourself. Again, this will require willpower and determination.

 

You know what? I bet you are not ugly, you just don't pay attention to yourself. Yes i know, that actually sounds bullshit but it is not! Being handsome isn't just good looks. Most attractive men are "ugly" too if they don't pay attention to details.

Do this:
1. Stop fapping and gain insane energy
2. Start going to gym
3. Style your hair and beard... If you don't have a beard
4. Grow a beard and style it
5. Use good perfume like bleu de chanel or lets say creed aventus
6. Buy and wear cool clothes
One can do many things to make self better. Main point is to first start paying attention to yourself and then the others.

Those few examples i write above will eventually lead to permanent state of confident well styled man who has good body. When you pay attention to details, girls will start to pay attention to you. They like men who are confident and men who know what they want. Take care of yourself first and gain confidence, then start radiating your "alpha male presence" people around you. Girls will surely notice you. But know this, even the most attractive and coolest guys walk sometimes home empty handed and alone from the party.
I'm not the most handsome guy in the world and when i was teenager i had bad acne, but still i managed to date quite many girls back then(even those taller than me) COZ i was confident and i showed them what i wanted. And when i failed, i didn't let that go under my skin. I chose to continue.

 

You’re welcome. What if you’ve been choosing the wrong girls? I’ve found that often the girl who is attracted to us is not on our radar because we’re obsessing over the so-called “pretty” or “hot” ones and therefore don’t have the awareness of all those other girls who at first glance may not be deemed “pretty or hot.” So, in a nutshell, work on your awareness. This has multiple benefits, beyond just dating.