I hate pick up artists.

@BoiledEggplant "quality durable chicks" LOL

 

I guess you can learn some things from them but I would not go approaching women word for word of what these PUA artist write.

If you get deep into this PUA world I doubt the end result will be strong relationship. Most likely it will be search for new pussy all the time. The goal will be to score more and more and those women will become like ''points'' that you keep the track of.

Some tips might work but be genuine not that I'm good with this stuff but saying.

 

That's it definitive! The PUAs have indeed a scoring system - they are doing kind of "olympics", and they have levels, called "closures", the nearer you get to a woman.

The positive aspect is it will strengthen your self conscience and you get a better understanding of social psychology.

Beyond this, it is a pure manipulative game. A guy who is doing this for a long time, must have a deeper rooted problem with his self conscience.

 

Basicly PUA can be tool to get out there and start talking but after that I would focuse on learning to talk to women without the manipulation tricks.

Having a hobby, taking care of your body , face , eating healthy and reading some books will help you. I would say it would be a better outlook to go meet up with new people in social situations and not having the goal of just hooking up and banging a chick. Basicly if you ''click'' with someone it will go further from that if not you just had a conversation with another person.

Also improving yourself as a person will it be getting more knowledge or getting more muscular should not be just to pickup women.

I'm working on this all myself but this is just how I see it myself.

 

Also, if you come across as PUA, this will damage your chances with quality women. For quality people with standards, desire for sex is desire for a person.

 

Is there any other site that feature the article? Because Reddit is blocked in my country. The government think it's full of porn.

 

Ouch, but true. Lol

 

That red pill thing scares me. And makes me feel sad. Human interaction and connection shouldn't be modelled on economic transactions. Friendships and all kinds of relationships should be based on respect, love, dignity, friendship and supporting each other to be the best person you can be. I'm glad I have many male friends who are kind and thoughtful and not scary and predatory like those men sound.

 

Red pill/ manosphere thought is a reaction to ideological feminism. Simples.

 

Its all bullshit (pick-up) - simple as that... i was considered to be a "natural" in their language..... they just replace one problem with another one (assuming they have success; what is usualy not the case). Its the old dream of having a "technique" some sort of "magic trick" (like in the old Kung FU movies) that allways help and bla... finally their wisdom isnt much more then: be a man, dont be shy, dont deny your drives, have a self-esteem (or at least prtend to have one) maintain eye-contact, dont be nervous, dont be needy...well: basics or not? ridiculous.....

 

I would say let them to their stuff, no need to hate them. I find them not useful, personal experience is the only way to learn efficiently in my opinion, we are all different human beings, do not forget that.

They make good money out of it, and they may have some valid reasons to earn it. I would not support them, nor would I hate them. My way is the only way, I'd say.

 

Theres a reason to hate (though i dont really hate them) they support the whole perception of humans as objects, they glorify the alpha-beta distinction, and reproduce a lot of stereotypes that are at the highest 50 percent true, they gain good, yes, because they exploit the hopes of desperated people, and some even support actions pretty close to sexual harrassement/rape... ect pp, so, its not just "another way to deal with things".

 

Id say a lot of pick up artist started out in a lonely place, growing up and struggling with social anxiety and depression. The transformation from a socially timid guy, to someone who can talk to absolutely anyone and feel 100% comfortable with themselves, is one of the best transformations anyone can make in life.

 

Don’t worry about . Pick up artist are the biggest losers at the dating field.


They are using pick up lines and other techniques to get a girl atention because they thinx they aren't good enough to get the girl.


While players and confident guys usally open with a normal HEY my name is. And start a conversation. And act confident.


Pick up artist usally don’t have a relationship with a woman because you can’t keep acting through a relationship. After they have sex with them the woman usally leaves…



Yes using certain tricks will get you woman but its more important that you grow confidence from within so that when you do hook up with a woman you can get a relationship.

 

I constantly hate PickUp-"Artists", because I just read articles, which described such guys as abusive devils.
In my opinion its disgusting, if someone calls it a "conquest" to sleep with one girl although she didn´t want that at the beginning.
The view you see that is a more ethical point of view and to "leave a women with the feeling of a win" seems nice to me. Seems nice to me, too. Maybe I should give it a try, without "abusing"