I guess technically I'm not a virgin now? (35m) story below

Damn. You must really hate your virginity to count that as a win.

 

That kind of service doesn't count. Honestly, I think you are best off finding a relationship rather than becoming obsessed with the idea of losing your virginity.

I'm sure I will trigger some counter arguments/'you're doing it wrong' comments by saying this but - sex is good but it's not earth shattering. Don't go down the 'special services' / escort route to lose it and risk catching something just to say you've had it.

 

It isn't. The mods wrote a post detailing what belongs in the Success Stories section: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...what-belongs-here-read-before-posting.123404/

 

Side note, many of us are members of this site and trying to get sober from illicit massage, escorts, etc.

I got bored with P many years ago and began frequenting illicit massage parlors. Long story short, it took me down a dark road all over the world and in to a life I never imagined living. Not saying this is your intention, but it wasn't my intention either. I'm an addict and I do addict things...and my addiction is progressive.

I've been a member of this community for 5+ years trying to get sober from camming, illicit massage, escorts, etc. It's been an extremely tough battle, but there's definitely hope. I have 90+ days for the first time in the 5 years I've been a member.

 

The focus of the OP shouldn’t be what the definition of losing virginity is, but rather addressing the issues that led him there in the first place.

 

If you're so intent on losing your virginity because your friends are pressuring you, either ditch your friends or lie to them and say you're not a virgin.