I feel stupid

Some moments of my life I've tried to meet women, but, on social media they seem a bit too picky, won't even give me a chance. I get so lonely I get tempted to hire an escort, to feel like I have a girl even if it's pretending.

I know better of course, what's the point of paying someone to pretend to like you for an hour? She leaves and you are as empty as you were before she came in.

I just want to be completely happy single and not feel lonely anymore, this feeling only makes me feel empty, I don't want the desire to be with someone because it looks like it won't be happening any time soon.

 

Avoid dating sites as hell while rebooting, they will make you depressive until you are ultra extra handsome. Cos dating sites are only about looks and we are something greater just than our looks, on dating site you cant sense moves, voice, smell and spirit of this person. It's better to making contact with women in real life, if you are scared the only way is to break the ice. Once you will start to practice you will feel more confident and start to thinking that dating sites are overall funny but rather worse option than real life interactions.
But you just have to BREAK THE ICE - there is no other way.
Remember - rejection will not make you die, don't make it a matter of life and death. Most of chicks will not be interested in you and that's not end of the world - they have the right to reject you as you have the right to not to be interested in every woman that pass through you.

Edit: Avoid dating sites and real life dating until you will get to some serious streak like 90 days, otherwise it might make you frustrated and return to PMO.

 

I'm currently not pursuing a date, but while I am getting my withdrawals, I get this incredible feeling of loneliness. Like I would give anything to feel a woman's love, her body, anything, and then it's like my mind plays tricks on me, saying I can just pay for it.

I know my brain is just trying to get a fix of dopamine since I am currently on hard mode and it's like it's starving.

I feel like I can make it if I keep my thoughts in their place, one slip up and it's all over.

 

Yeah, there are far more consequences to do than to don't. If I don't I save money, I don't get an STD, I won't get in trouble with the police, far too many benefits to simply ignore my impulses.

I just feel so incredibly lonely, I hate this feeling...

 

I exercise regularly, I work, sometimes my friends invite me to the movies. Currently I don't have a car and public transportation sucks where I live. I get bored easily and that's where it gets worse.

 

I empathise with what you are saying in this thread Latin boy. Could you take the initiative - you contact your friends to go out or even to hang out? Is there a particular buddy you have that you enjoy a one-one friendship with? Perhaps you have similar interests. See what you can do to change the drudgery of most days, weeks and months being the same.

 

I used to have a lot of friends but now it's narrowed down to two, and one of them doesn't have a car. The one who does is married and now has a baby, so he doesn't have much time in his hands.

 

Hmm. Same here - more empathy!

 

I think I need new friends, new experiences, I will do that, actively trying to find people to hang out and learn new things, might as well, can't get stuck in the past forever.