I feel like I want to have a lot of sex

I'm on Day 18 today. I don't think I'm slipping up but I think that if/when I have someone in my life, I'd want to have a lot of sex. Like lots. But I also think that, if I feel that way, I'm probably objectifying women because I am wanting a partner to have a lot of sex with.

Obviously, it would depend on my partner if they would/wouldn't want to have sex but I don't like the fact that I want someone in my life just because part of me wants to have a lot of have sex. I want a partner so that I can spend my life with them, so that we can help each other achieve each others goals, to start a family. And all of this sounds so ideal. But then BAM, my brain hits me with thoughts about fucking them to my hearts content and then some.

I don't know what to do about this dualistic personality of mine. I feel that it is wrong to have such thoughts. And I feel that I want to get rid of them and just focus on the good part (love, family, etc.).

What would be the right way to go about it?