Hey all, trying to go 90 days with no MO. Still having sex with my wife but I don't know what to think about. Old fantasies just creep in. WTF! Guess I don't know how to just feel without having an object in mind.
We need to learn to he in the moment again! Spoiler The other night I was inside my wife, and all I could think about was a hot double vaginal penetration video I'd seen!
Look at your wife, or look at pictures and videos of her more often, but especially before. Other things to consider are to pray, if you do that or talk to a CSAT.
Abstain from sex for a while too. That should do the trick. As someone who could NEVER cum from sex with my wife without thinking of something or someone else, trust me. Stop wanking and stop having sex for 2 weeks or more. The pure sensation after this long without will keep you right there in the moment. Hopefully that moment will be pretty quick!