I don't know how to do this...

If you don't know what to do with her just become friends with everyone else in the room... tell jokes/stories/quips etc. Up your social cred with them and you will become the center of attention and the aura will pull others in.

Most students do it the other way around, where they don't say much the whole semester in that class but out of the blue try to hit up the hot chick with no leadup... it can feel out of place and often fails unless you're really smooth.

 

Yeah, that is the main problem for people in this situation. I remember when I was a teen and porn wasn't fast streaming, there wasn't social media sites, and youtube wasn't big at all... in those days you could have social awkwardness but it was much smaller and you could fake it until it lowered.

 

Yeah then you will have to go straight for the 1 on 1 approach. If you are trying to start a conversation I wouldn't lead with a question because questions can get shot down with a yes or no answer plus she probably doesn't know much about you yet to be comfortable talking.

One of my favorite tricks is to start informally as if we already know each other, and begin the communication as if it was picking back up from where you left off before. This not only keeps things relaxed but if gives the other person a glimpse of what knowing you on that level would be like.

In an ideal world, what are the types of things you'd like to talk to her about?

 

Ok, that is good... just know that she might be timid at first to share her interests so you might want to talk about your interests first to make her comfortable with who you are. What happened in the first 1-2 conversions you had with her?

 

Great! It sounds like things are going in the right direction.