I crave confidence!

Hey man, congratulations on joining the ranks. It's great that you've started so early. I'm new here myself, and I wish I'd found out about this a long time ago - I bet I could've had a lot more success. The confidence thing is real, and it's pretty crazy. I started a week ago, and already have noticed a lot more looks my direction. Girls at checkout counters start conversations with me, one girl at a burrito place even stopped another girl from starting my order so she could take it! My ability to hold eye contact is way better, my posture is better, my social ability has improved (I was always socially gifted, but now I feel a more natural ability to carry on conversation/start conversation), and I have more of a 'who cares' mentality - which is what you need to talk to that crush! I suggest you practice talking to as many girls you don't know as you can, like waitresses, cashiers, girls in the hallways, etc. - if you can do that effectively, it won't seem so daunting to talk to your crush. Good luck!

 

Makes me really happy that you're so aware in your age. Just great to start at age 15! Most people are not very confident in your age. They just have different ways to handle it. You be the change!

 

Dude....I'm like the same age almost....one year younger. I found the same thing, basically I just like started doing it more and more to the point where I didnt think it would ever stop. If i was feeling bad, id do it, if i was feeling good, id do it....more and more i wasnt feeling anything, but still doing it. Anyway, you know the cycle. It sucks. But this site gives me hope. Lots of people here seem to be doing ok with it.