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I can't get hard

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by MARBB, Apr 2, 2023.

  1. MARBB

    MARBB New Fapstronaut

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    Hi my name marwan my age is 20 years old i good person giong to gym, pray and eat healthy food finally good sleep and i am addicted to porn and musterbation since i was 14 years old my biggest problem is i can get hard i don't have any erection when i have sex with my gf and no intereste but when i watch porn every things is good
    I feel like i am not normal and my life worst now bc of that the question is if stop porn and musterbation can i back like i was
     
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  2. Hey dude, don’t worry you are still ok, its 100% PIED, very common among us porn addicts.. All of your biological stuff is working fine, which is good news because that means you can actually do something to resolve your issues! There is tons of information and other stories that are very relatable and you have lots of time to sort it out, you are still young and healthy nothing to worry about I promise. Check out the forum section for PIED under Porn Addiction forum, you should find some very helpful posts there. And yes, definitely try no PMO for 30 days, then try for 90 days. You will see in a few weeks you are getting hard from the wind blowing up your shorts! But still addicted to porn so you really need to go a few months or more to see real changes in the bedroom. Don’t get reliant on blue pill like I did for 10 years, just quit PMO, no MO no touching no nothing. It will suck for 2 weeks but you will 100% see results. Anyway, check out the forum section for PIED (porn-induced erectile dysfunction). Good luck bro stay strong! We are all in this together
     
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  3. Kartik_2022

    Kartik_2022 Fapstronaut

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    Hi
    Just leave porn for 90 days. Do NO PMO and see the results to make further choices in life.
    Thanks
     
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  4. Josegavin37

    Josegavin37 Fapstronaut

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    Bro can't stop seeing porn
     
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  5. Kn0wbie

    Kn0wbie Fapstronaut

    You make that sound so easy! Great advice though!!
     
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  6. Ankur8989

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    Im 32. Started watching and fapping to porn since 15. I'd usually masturbate to porn and would usually like incest, trans and regular porn. Never fantasized to porn or had negative attitudes to women.

    Now I've been in 2 relationships for the last 6 years and have just never been able to get hard to penetrate. Rarely get aroused during the day. Morning wood is perfect. Get it rock hard 4-5 times a week.

    What's the answer to get arousal naturally when I'm turned on?
     
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  7. Ankur8989

    Ankur8989 Fapstronaut

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    Been off porn for a good 6-8 months now
     
  8. Kartik_2022

    Kartik_2022 Fapstronaut

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    If you have been off ( meaning NO PMO) for such a long time, I suggest you seek medical help.


    90 days for hardmode NO PMO can be started simultaneously.
     
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  9. Ankur8989

    Ankur8989 Fapstronaut

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    Yup physically no issues. Hormones and blood tests came out fine. They have asked me to think of real sex and masturbate willingly after hard PMO. At this point am at 22 days and it's going well.
     
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  10. Ankur8989

    Ankur8989 Fapstronaut

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    Guess after 60 days one should rewire with a real partner.
     
  11. Legacy of Lost Soul

    Legacy of Lost Soul Fapstronaut

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    I have it the same and Im years off P... usually when I get used to new girl, my erections get better. It takes like 1 month at least. But Im able to penetrate. Honestly, if you do the foreplay right, make her ready and open, and you know how to insert, you can be almost soft and get there anyway ;D than after a while I get a bit harder. What is strange to me, is that all girls are completely ok with that, and enjoy it a lot. Or they are all just liars, u never know LOL
     
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  12. Ankur8989

    Ankur8989 Fapstronaut

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    But if one is physically fine, one needs to get erect sufficiently. That not happening isn't natural. I would want to get completely erect when aroused.
     
  13. Kartik_2022

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    Concentrate on action required.

    Do NOFAP.
    Remove Porn and Masturbation for life.
    Make a routine.
    Do excercise and meditation.
    Get reed of anxiety with positive outlook.
     
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  14. Legacy of Lost Soul

    Legacy of Lost Soul Fapstronaut

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    Well believe me, I want that as well and I did a lot to get there. But it just does not happen to me.
     
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