I can not talk to the girl

Sounds like me many years ago when I was in school. Well for starters what I am going to say comes from years of dating and approaching first off there is no perfect time to approach a women . I seriously doubt her friend will bust out laughfing at you that's just your mind messing with you and lack of experience I have been there so theres no shame in that we all overthink it before we get some experience . Just go up and say this
" hi I would like to speak to ( whatever her name is ) alone for a minute, ( then when she is alone ) hey lets meet up Saturday at the (mall cafeteria wherever ) at 7:00 " that's it if she is interested she will say yes and give you here number or suggest another place and time , if not she will act like she doesn't know you that well or tell you she has a boyfriend YOU WIN ANY WAY YOU CUT IT BECAUSE YOU APPROCHED AND FOUND OUT AND THATS WIN WIN SITUATION

 

Every time i talked iwth a girl, i regreted it dearly. Its a form of self harm at this point