So I was browsing through websites that I thought weren't porn related since I have a porn blocker on my computer. But on the side there was an ad that clearly showed a naked woman bouncing on a dick. I quickly turned away and closed the website. But I am wondering if you guys would consider this technically a relapse? Or does me turning it off show my intention and doesn't count as relapse?
I read your thread and wonder if I relapsed because I remember that exact “girl bouncing on a dick” gif..... lol. No dude. It’s not a relapse lol. Good for you for doing the job of the blocker !
It all depends on your goal and how bad you are from pmo. If you got pied then i would say wait for at least 30 days of healing before having sex. If like me, you stated you wanted to do hard mode/monk mode then don't do it because on hard mode you can't have orgasm. I recommend hard mode if you are really fucked by porn like me. Otherwise go for it. Nofap is about staying away from porn and masturbation. If you love her and he loves you and you wanna have a good time and you will only live the moment with her without fantasizing just go for it. Sex is life, the enemy is porn, not the women body. Take care.
No, porn addiction is more than just the image - it is the psychological build-up and intention of seeking and viewing the images to soothe some other issue. Getting a glimpse of something xxx is not a reset. Congrats for seeing it and realizing it was not for you, quickly closing and moving on.
The problem is that having sex would be with a random girl from this contact pages, like badoo or so...I don't know in your country, but in mine is not difficult to date a girl and "see a movie"with her. But I dont know if it would be bad for my reboot cause would be like maturbate, but with the hand or mouth or whathever of the girl. Sorry for my level of english.
I'm from Brazil and here it is pretty normal. I do that myself, but like i said, if you guys go on a date and you like each other, and you know you won't fantasize about other or you know your dick can work, just go for it. Even if she masturbates you it is she that is doing it not you. It is still an act of sex. Just enjoy it man.
K9 on my laptop and safe surfer on my phone Thank you I think I'm starting to get the hang of NoFap. It isn't easy but it's doable