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I’m doing very well but right now I’m scared.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by CodyR4494, Oct 26, 2020.

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  1. Oct 26, 2020 #1
    CodyR4494

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    I’m 27 days in, my longest streak ever. My fiancé cheated on me and I met another wonderful girl.

    Sex has been a factor that has helped. My doctor gave me v*agra Bc I struggle to maintain an erection during sex. I’ve had mixed results without it. Twice so far I lost it while we were trying, and I’ve a handful of times I’ve succeeded without it. But she doesn’t know anything about my PMO problem. Now I’m running out of v*agra and I’m scared of flatline. I’m scared I’m going to lose this relationship. Idk what flatline is like or if I’ll have it, idk. I’m super scared tho. Any advice?
     
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  2. Oct 26, 2020 #2
    SelfControlIsTheGoal

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    Well first things first, you left the girl who cheated on you right? Want to clarify that.

    Flatlines are gonna happen and you dont have to tell a girl you just met about PMO addiction. Just say not now (women do that all the time) and It might pass you a shit test and show youre not a simp too. A doc will prescribe you more viagra if you ask too man. Trust the process and try to relax and go with the flow.
     
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  3. Oct 26, 2020 #3
    CodyR4494

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    yes she’s been gone for about a month now. And I don’t think my doctor will he wants me to go to therapy. Which is damn near impossible considering my hours rn.

    And let me be clear. It’s not an option I cannot go during the week Bc of my work hours. I know I don’t have to tell her but I’m afraid I won’t be able to have sex. And that’s what scares me. My doctor, I basically had to fight with him to get him to give me v*agra the second time.
     
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  4. Oct 26, 2020 #4
    mentorr

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    Hey @CodyR4494

    Hope you're good bro.

    I went through this exact scenario. I started dating a girl I really liked and was scared to death to tell about my problem. So I went and got me some v*agra and started to have sex. It worked and things were going fine. The problem after was a) the v*agra started to wear off and b) we went into lockdown and my v*agra channel dried up. I started lying to her saying that I wasn't in the mood or that the alcohol was the issue, but my options were running out quickly.

    Bro. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but ill be honest. Your best bet would be to tell her. Be honest and keep it real with her on what's going on. It will lift the stress and if she doesn't understand it is on her and not you.

    Good luck
     
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