How to please the wife?

I've learned to be wild and spontaneous and get her all hot and let myself go don't "overthink or think" about anything just let my wild testosterone loose and please her and touch and kiss and lick and soon enough shes wetter then ever lol thats my 2 cents

 

In my experience it's all about fun. As most women have hard time reaching O, as much of them will tell you that it's not the point just as men may always reach O without being fully pleased. Seriously, just try to have fun with the person you have in front of you. Imagine if both of you expect the other to be professional and have the greatest time, it makes no sense. It's probably where P breought us all wrong. We're not supposed to be confident and cold bulls. Make her feel special because you have fun with her, sincerely find a way to make it with a smile, O or not, and trust me it will happen soon or late.

I can remember the first time I made it with my actual girlfiend, she almost reached it and I didn't. She had never reached it and I would most of the time. But we were so happy to do this that it was just not the point...

Seriously, P and sex aren't all about virtual and real experience, it's about how we learn and make it...

 

in our experience, major foreplay really works, getting eachother really worked up, to the point where it drives eachother crazy, , sometimes we are so turned on, but foreplay really makes it where you drive each other crazy, and you want and need desperatly,that the sex is literally out of the word. hub plays with my nipples, which seem to have a direct lime to my vagina, and he keeps going and it gets me so wet, drives me crazy in a good way. on the other hand i do things to him and it makes him go crazy......

 

I'd just like to say that we should all be careful with this topic and posts because it could potentially get explicit and erotic and while it's not porn, it still could cause relapse for some people.

Women are complex and sex/pleasure often extends outside the bedroom for them. I've found that making a women feel loved and beautiful and valued, etc is equally as important as the physical sex acts. For the women i've been with i'd try and tell them they were beautiful as often as i could, and mean it, not just say it because it's 3:00 or something. Buying a woman flowers seems kind of cheesy, but it can really make a woman feel loved. I got my now-ex some roses once because i saw them at a grocery store and it was a spur of the moment thing and you should have seen her face light up when i gave them to her at work. She posted pictures all over Facebook and got tons of likes and she was just so happy.

I'll just leave it at that for now, i have other things to say but i feel it would be too explicit.