How to have the libido of a female and how to not be visually turned on like females?

Abstaining from porn and masturbating wouldn't be rewarding if it were easy.

 

First of all, that s you father who determine your sex, as he has both chromosome X and Y.
Secondly, why the fuck would you like to change? You have to be very narrow minded to tell that. You don't realise how hard it is to be a woman in our society. If we don't talk about the natural aspect ( being pregnant, periods,...), there are the discrimination at work, being treat as a sexual object by tons of male, did you ever saw a man being raped? No you should be happy with the gender you have because both have its up and down. What you are fighting is not your gender, it is your addiction. Your self-destruction.Women may also have it even if they are fewer. Being a looser is not determined by you gender, but by your mindset.

 

Dude stop blaming your sex for your addiction, the only way to have low libido like a female is to remove your testicles. I saw your other post, just calm down... women have plenty of sex addictions. Chill...

 

I don't think females necessarily have a low libido. I feel like they are a bit more complex, where we are more visual creatures when it comes to these things. Maybe that is why it causes us so much more trouble getting stuck.

 

Also, it's completely wrong that women are not visually stimulated, or have low sex drives. They are just more sexually repressed than men in most cultures. There is a difference in age, with men's libidos peaking in late teens, and women's libidos peaking in 30's. Yes, at some point, women generally have a higher drive than the men their age.

 

No, men have higher sex drives due to testosterone. I'm not saying "women don't have these issues" but they are less common, hence why this forum is mostly men, most porn viewers are men, etc. The first sign of low testosterone in a male is low sex drive. Testosterone makes your sexual desires sky rocket. Female bodybuilders who use synthetic testosterone often report that they feel "like a man" when it comes to their sexual desires. Everytime I use testosterone my sex drive increases 10 fold, I'll find myself checking out more women and finding it extremely difficult to stop PMO. Take 500mg of testosterone and you won't stop thinking about sex... my GF said the amount of sex I wanted on testosterone was unreal. It's hormonal... Saying women are just as horny as men is false. "Well I knew this one girl who..." yes yes there is going to be the sex fiend but were talking about overall differences.

 

Hello again. Thought you could escape from criticism by creating a brand new thread? Not going to work...

You're not going to get very far if you keep blaming your gender and complaining about how women have it so much easier than you because they "have a lower sex drive".

What kind of existence would that be? You have a high libido. Embrace it. It's a blessing, not a curse. Libido is one of the reasons you're alive. Your problem is not your libido, it's your addiction. Why do you watch porn in the first place? It's not just a sexual thing for you, is it? Do you feel ashamed about who you are? Are you lonely? Are you depressed? Do you get anxious? Have you suffered any serious trauma in your life? Are you bored all the time? What issues are you medicating with your porn usage? These are the questions you should be asking, not "how do I reduce my libido?"

Self confidence issues are one of the main reasons people watch porn. If you feel like a loser, it's not surprising to me that you would watch porn to medicate that issue. It's a vicious cycle. You feel like a loser, so you watch porn to feel better, which makes you feel like a loser, which leads to more porn, etc.

Your gender doesn't determine whether you're a loser or not, but your attitude does.

 

You WANT to be repressed?! Don't you realize how unhealthy that is? Burying things in your subconscious means things come out in uncontrollable and unpredictable ways.

 

Castration?

 

Complaining about who you are isn't going to help you come to terms with your addiction. If you continue to deny this and continue to complain then there's nothing that any of us can do to help you with your addiction. You need humility to overcome an addiction. You need to accept yourself for who you are.

Looks like you're also starting to tread into some dangerous territory. Your posts are starting to become more and more misogynistic, and if you keep going down that road you may end up getting banned from the forum. Being banned means you would have even less access to support, and it's pretty clear that you need all the support you can get at this point. Tread carefully, man. You're really poking the tiger here.