So my concerns are I will not be able to have sex because I'm aware I'm afraid and belive that will just make me think the worst On top of this I feel abit a asexual just loss a of atrraction On top of this I haven't had sex in years Does anyone know how I am supose to find my way back? Also I'm depressed aand have social axiety
Hey there, first try to solve your depression; that will hold you back so much, you cannot begin to realise. In my log, I wrote a post about what depression is; my genuine recommendation is to find a therapist that's specialised in trauma (and ask him/her whether they solved their own childhood issues). Personally, I haven't had sex in 2 years if that helps; I strongly believe sex is overrated and we're making a too tall monument of out it, where in reality it doesn't need to be this way. You will be able to have sex, you will enjoy it and you're far too young to think about such non-sense. Solve the depression and things will slowly start to fall into place. I'd speculate that your loss of attraction stems from your depression. Cheers
Hold your sperm. Natural selection will do the work for you. Woman is very sensitive, and they know when you jerk off all the time, they dont like it. But if you have a shitload of sperm acumulated, sensitive woman definitely will feel that, and in fact, they will want stole your precious vault, because the inner world of a girl is very unstable and they cannot control it, not like us men. Not only your words, tone and body language talks for you. But also other planes that goes farest that sensorial senses. Is up to you if you want give your sperm to them, or keep it for you. Is for you or for her, but never throw it anywhere, such a waste of a very powerful body resource. Fact
