How to get back my manhood?!

I'm sure somebody is going to come in here and give you the speech about how "being a man" is a social construct and all that jazz and in a way I guess that's true. Anyway you're not happy therefore what makes you feel that way? Is it that you're not fit? Bad looking? Lacking charm or charisma?

Think about ways to make you feel better and work for them, such as working out, studying stuff, getting rid of PMO and so on and so forth. Don't compare yourself to anybody, we are all unique. You need to learn to love yourself so ask yourself what would make you feel better about yourself.

 

First step is to let go of PMO, whether your fantasies/fetishes are something you're OK with or not that's up to you, however, know that PMO increases your desires for something new and different over time, hence why you used to like X thing and now you're more into Y thing, it will escalate if you keep watching P.

After that I'd advise you to work out so you can hopefully feel better about who you are in general, work on your self-confidence and learn to live life to the fullest on your own and only then should you be worried about finding a woman.

 

Break the PMO cycle that is the first step. The second thing you need to do is boost your testosterone so join a gym or workout at home whichever works for you and clean up your diet. The third step is to work on your social skills you could try a dating coach like this guy https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9vxWZXU_JA0coIBeSAk6A

Put everything together and then go out into the real world and meet real people. Your energy will change, confidence will increase and people will want to connect with YOU. Online dating is also another easy way to meet girl’s hell you don’t even need to meet the most attractive ones just use the whole experience as practice.

Think breath relax. Repetition is the key to becoming the person you want to be.

 

I think your identity 'as a man' is born out of the things you represent as a human being and the things you believe in and/or the things you are willing to fight for, whether that be family, love or your friends, and I don't mean fight as in violence but as in the things you do on a daily basis whether they are constructive or destructive. Strenght isn't just about physical strength, it can be about inner strength too and it is still possible to be vulnerable yet show courage at the same time, one reason why i believe a lot of men don't talk about their problems. My opinion take it or leave it, is a man is someone who cherishes and respects women, protects children and stands up for himself, his family and what he believes in./

 

it is good to take your time in this. you will get your old self back. trust me on this. it just takes plenty of time.

 

You definitely have PMO induced fetishes, this all seems to be a side effect of your addiction and I can understand to some degree the confusion you are going through. You can still go back to normal - but first you need to detach yourself from the "feminine-self" you are associating with yourself with and quit porn completely.

Best of luck!

 

Same situation I am going through,
I was watching porn from last 4 years but I was happy that I was talking for girls,i got a GF,i loved her very much but I got anxious b.coz I was not getting morning woods and it results into the too much anxiety and hypertension and I feel like nothing,i breakup with her because I don't want to ruin her life.after this I got indulge in watching pornography,n normally I don't get erection but when I watch it I got one instantly(I used to watch too much incest porn tumblr pages) but now after 6 months I lost everything,i lost my manly feelings,i don't feel like man,same situation like u in which I scared to make eye contact with others specially mens.
I feel like when I go among other boys they will treat me as a gay rather than like them..I feel like I should suicide but I don't want to give my family a sore of life..
Thanks friends i will try it..