How to fix a broken heart

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by The sun is the limit, Dec 24, 2018.

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    Wow! Thank you for posting this. This was a real eye opener. Two years ago, my struggle with PMO was due to the fact that I was dumped by the love of my life. I said to myself " How could this happen? What did I do? How can I win her back? " I put her on a pedestal , stayed attached to all the wonderful memories, which did not make move forward, but backwards. Now with a clear mind, I can say she is still a wonderful girl but her life situation would have made it impossible for us to have a future together. Thank you for sharing this :)
     
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    Thanks so much for posting this. Decades ago, my porn addiction began after I was also dumped by the love of my life. I was sure we would spend our lives together, and based a lot of my identity on my relationship with her. In a way, I never got over her. And I didn't make a real effort to move on. I stayed stuck in my head, in memory, in fantasy. And turned to porn as one way to comfort my loneliness. These are real weapons that can help us move forward after our hearts are broken, in ways that are constructive rather than destructive. And like so many things here, it's good just to know you are not alone. Thanks again.
     
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    Wow Arkos! I can totally relate to what you experienced for it was the same thing for me as well. Well said!
     

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