I have a friend. We dated a year or so back and I am trying to treat her like a normal friend. It didnt work out since she for a various of reasons are unable to respect my time and boundaries. She is mentally ill but really good company when she have a good day. Anyways, she flaked on me yesterday since she were tired. I invited her to go bowling today with me and two of my girl friends. She has failed to answer. I know she is busy more or less all day. I am tempted to not ask again and just go without her. Just so she knows that not answering means that I wont drag her along. She wants to join but I am not the kind of person to wait until last minute for an answer. I am meeting her again tomorrow. She got the whole day free. I dont really want to tell her that I expect more from her as a friend. Better to show her probably. I dont have time for her if she only shows up 50% of the time.
If having to have this friendship is hurting you this much, and giving you this much pain, it's probably best to be honest with her.
