Hi, I am 29 and had porn (not too much and not too little also) for last 6 years. I started to recover from it and its been 3 weeks since then. In the mean time I got married and I don't have desire to have any kind of sex. At the time of Foreplay I got erection but if try to initiate sex it goes away, so its embarrassing. Overall my sexual desire is low. If i fantasise about any sexual (or porn) things in mind I get erection but in front of my wife its not sustainable.Is this kind of behaviour is permanent ED? or it will go away as my mind refreshes. or if it takes time how can I take steps to deal with current situation. Note: I have morning wood, but not everyday its 1 or 2 times in a week. Please suggest.
Why did you get married if you have PIED ? I mean you didn't had a sexual intercourse before getting married? as normal people do? And if you don't know, if you don't make your Wife satisfied in the Bed she would Likely cheat on you at the end of the day or at worse Divorce with you. Cause womens have sexual needs as us mens Why did you get married if you have PIED or have sexual issues ? You should have Sex before marriage, and see if there is a connection between you and her. and the Marriage comes as the last option. I know a close friend that his Wife cheated on Him because he was Addicted to Porn and he wasn't able to get an Erection and give his Wife Sex. so she cheated on him multiple time and she ended divorcing with him and marrying the other guy that she were cheating on him with. Sadly the same story can happens to you because Porn ruins Life. It will ruins Your Marriage and your Sex Life and everything else sadly.
Stop masturbating. Don't touch yourself. Don't be alone. Try to spend your time out with your wife. Do other activities! Through your mind STOP ANY fantasy thoughts since the fantasy has been created in you by the porn! ITS THE PORN on your mind NOT the *REAL YOU*. If you had to, explain it to your wife. The addiction. Otherwise, it'll get solved by time and the most important thing is to NOT WATCH ANYTHING SEXUAL!
It'll if you follow it 100%. Tell your wife if you WANT to. Plus, don't stay alone. Be more extroverted. Social. Be out. Staying in your place, watching porn and masturbating just creates more vulnerabilities for a NEW fantasy, fetish or an escalation to occur! It dies by time just don't EVER go back. Stress, anxiety and depression is common when you're stuck in your place but starts to fade when you move on! Good luck!
