How porn ruined your life?

I've lost a lot of good friends, I didn't really care about my health, about other people, even death and suffering of others didn't do almost anything to me. Quite scary, isn't it? Social anxiety forced me to stay at home, without many RL friends, without motivation to do anything.. now because of someone dear to me, I have a strong motivation to complete this 90-day hard mode. I started more than 2 months ago, and even with some relapses, I can see a lot of changes.

We CAN do it, never give up!!

 

I'm glad I could help. Same goes for you, I hope that 1 month from now I'll see your thread in Success Stories
Every time you feel like relapsing, remember why are you doing this, for who you are doing this and maybe even write down all the reasons for NoFap.
Don't let your addicted brain win over you. There's one vital thing you need to get out of this. I created a thread about it.

I wish you and everyone who is reading this the best of luck!

 

Hi there, actually i used to be a Winner before the addiction, i had a lot of dreams, i was as they called me a genius in studies, since i was a boy who used to read scientific articles and could invent things, i was supersmart with a strong memory so i quit my country and went studying in one of the biggest medical school but since the addiction i am struggling to get things done and can not enjoy being with my family, i am always stressed and afraid for no reason, beside the social Anxiety cause i am always the Nice waek guy and people can get what ever they want because, but since i started the journey i feel like getting back my manhood and becoming the alphamale i am, even few relapses recently but after tasting the nofap benefits i won't give up !

 

Really brother...Porn is like hell...I was also huge addictor of porn...porn has destroyed me completly...But Now everything is okk...I overcame from this addiction...Currently on day 141...Feeling very happy...Porn is not a good friend of mine now.....

 

Porn affected my life on so many levels. Not only did it cause me to drift away from my friends, but also made my problems with interaction with other people even worse. Depression and anxiety attacks also became a common occurrence. I even went late to places because i had porn as distraction, the worst being at the beggining of this year when i got late to work one day and got called out bad for it and because i was constantly distracted and as a result made a lot of terrible mistakes, since then i decided i had to do something about it and fight this demon.

 

I also was at an extreme low point of life. Not only addicted to pmo (2-3 times a day lot of the time), but also heavy smoker, gambling (also one of the worst and insane addictions out there) and mentally, emotionally (nervous, insecure ugghh), and eventually physically a total wreck.
Thankfully i got rid of all my addictions. Only nofap is still a struggle sometimes. I recently relapsed, but i really want to close the pmo chapter of my life, since i now see and understand it brings nothing good. Shifting from short term pleasure mindset to a long term purpose mindset. We can do this!!!

 

How can I explain this changing it's affecting I don't know let me try... I had a good life as a kid, I had a good life quality. I was always having top ranks in my school, have a lot of friends, higher self esteem, higher life aspect and I had a good vision of life. And at a pretty young age I had discovered internet porn and video games. It completely negatively effected my life. All this I said above have totally changed. I became a different person. I had adhd, depression, anxiety attacts and an unending psychiatry circle then. I started PMO before I sexually active and I was a curious kid and I didn't even know how porn is bad.

I thought then before porn and after porn in my life. And before I know about nofap I tried to quit porn. I had a HUGE journey about it. I am trying to quit about 5 years. Yeah five years and this the point I am in. I had some streaks like 60, 90, 150 days ( which is my best and I had really human beings this section in my 16) And I know how porn is bad for human. I failed tons of times, with severe relapses, binges anxiety attacks and everytime I failed I started again. And I remember this thing: "Younger guys need more time." At my 16, I healed like 30 days but in my 20, I can't heal this kind of time like 30 days because I have added too much porn in my history and I don't expect I heal in short time. And it is not just about thinking healing. It is more about being sober. Good luck guys!

 

Mate!!!You are rigt.Porn is real problem.I don't know.How many porblem i had faced.But Now i don't care about porn.Porn is shit and I have won this war.And i will never ever watch porn again...

 

Thanxx a lot bro.... i will always remember your words

 

Great thread brother, well this shitty addiction broke my concentration at college, my grades fell. For the gym, I never achieved how I wanted to look like, because this hidden and bad habit killed my strength from time to time, and I got weaker. Normally I am a confident and energetic person, but PMO made me weak in all circumstances of this great life. I felt deep inside that I had lost my inner identity

 

Same case here....This addiction destroyed all my acedmics....Really guyss...Pmoo is world cancer....

 

I know brother...Their bussiness is too big...But now we can only do one thing...Thats is improve our life...

 

We will stand up against it no matter what, I mean guys at least we know that it's harmful. But I know that in the future, the real drug will be known as PMO just like how cigarette is nowadays