How nofab stoped me from jacking off : This is my first post. :-)

This is my first post. Does any body else feel like noFap forum has a spirt of sexual frustration and struggle? Or it could be me; In any case I’m glad to have this as a resource. I think I’m 3 days clean. But I’m not 100% sure what all would constitute as a relaps.
For example My cousin came into town and we ended up at a strip club. Now that’s not something I normally even enjoy or think about; but I beared with it and unfortunately I did get a few dance ( they were mad at me because I was true to their rules, I only paid $5) I won’t go into detail (mustn’t be a stumbling block to my brothers).

SO Now the QUESTION IS DID I RELAPS? Do I need to set my counter back to 0?

When I woke up the next morning I was STRU - GU - LING! laying in bed just daydreaming about my kink. I didn’t jack off but I came close. But instead I logged on to here and wrote this post