How has your attraction to women changed over the years?or has it not?

When I was in my teens it didn't take much for a woman to interest me. Nowadays for various reasons my attraction has dwindled. I struggle to get truly aroused even when watching porn, it's usually the compulsion that sees me through.

 

always attracted to girls . blondes browns black red skinny fat . i remember there was a girl in my school who played hockey damn she had some glutes. i was attracted to pretty much all girls .i loved high school i flirted sith all the hot popular girls in school and they flirted with me i sat beside one of.the hottest girls in school and she used to grab my balls and nip my groin . i used to fantasize about the female teachers i didnt need porn . i would get held back after school for messing about in class and i would get fantasies about female teachers .

i had high sex drive as a teen my best buds where the year and two years above me so i would hang out with people my age and people older.
i would go to bars at 15 and hooked up with grown women .

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i remember having sex with a women in her 40s when i was 15 and she swallowed my cum. she took my phone number and i fucked her the weekend after . i was only 15 it was the best thing ever . i remember hooking up with a women it was so easy we were all talking in the kitchen then everyone went off to.bed and i walked into her bedroom and said ill sleep in here with you and she said ok but put the wardrobe against the bed i was 15 and this women of about 40 sucking my dick and then i fucked her
my sex life was awesome girls in my class were getting jealous of other girls who would flirt with me. some girls would sit between my legs during class and i would get hard

i always had a high sex drive .

but it took a nose dive in my twenties working 100 hours a week high stress life bullshit barely socialising now people just think im gay. im possibly bisexual because i eventually started jerking off to trans porn but im not attracted to other males so not so sure about that

i think lack of sex and a change in how women play the game killed my sex drive

i .think it would take a good night out to get back into the swing of it but the way we live how does anyone have the time times are different these days ..i get most of my interaction with women from adult cams.

so my attraction has definitely changed i dont notice women in real life but i get hard instantly when online so .

who the fuck knows shits broke

 

I guess I'm pretty normal. When I was a teen, I was into teens, as I got older I started liking older and older women. Now I'm 37 and I love women around my age (although I still like younger women, too). Also, I've diversified racially. I find women of all races attractive now whereas I used to be attracted to the stereotypical blonde with blue eyes.

 

It's basically gone now. Probably a long deep "flatline" but I hope it's gone for good.

 

You want it to be gone for good?

 

I'm just wise to the game now and refuse to play. You want to know my view, its similar to Coach Greg Adams and Aaron Clarey.

 

Not really, I think attraction stays the same. I go for what is generally considered attractive; skinny with a pretty face. Just like any guy would. Trust me, if you find a girl attractive then 90% of guys will also find her attractive.

I don’t think attraction changes at all, beauty and ugliness is genetics and can’t be changed. Sure, you can mask ugliness but that’s all it is, a mask to hide your true form. If she is pretty then she’s attractive, if she is ugly then she is unattractive. Pretty girls are good looking their whole life; as a girl, teen and young woman. And vice versa, ugly girls tend to stay being ugly their whole life also.

But it is important to note that Guys don’t really have high standards like women and will happily be with a girl even if she isn’t attractive, she just needs to be average looking with a nice feminine personality and loyalty. Can’t say the same for women as they aren’t satisfied with just an average man.

 

Attraction is different for everyone. And it can change( someone you thought was ugly becomes attractive because of their personality)Different cultures have different standards of beauty. Different time periods have different standards. I’m short, curvy, think big hips, big rear, big breasted, tiny waist, but thick thighs. I was not in any way considered attractive next to my rail thin, stick figured best friend. She has none of the curves, but thin was in. Think boyish figure. My best friend ( male) said to me “ I feel like I’m weird because I don’t like the thin ultra fit women, I like them a little plump and soft” I told him there was nothing wrong with him, he’s attracted to what he’s attracted to. His wife has always been fairly overweight.
As to really high standards? I’ve found many men have exceedingly high standards in how a woman looks. I myself think both sexes are first attracted by looks, but men put more importance on it. I married the ugliest man I dated. He was not physically attractive to me, but I loved his sense of humor, quick wit, intelligence and he was nice. I know think he’s one of the most beautiful men I know, super attractive. He was the first guy willing to go riding horses with me, even though he’d never been on one. We were friends a year before we ever dated.

 

Women are the ones with higher standards for looks. That’s yet another bluepill lie that society tells about men being the ones with superficial standards.

You’ll see more overweight women with fit or thin men than the other way around. There is no “body positivity” movement for Men. When guys get fat, they’ll immediately get shamed.

 

Woman have higher standards. Thin women are more attractive than fat women and that’s not an opinion. Guys who like fat women are usually fat themselves or have low self esteem due to the lack of women in their life so they have to settle with a fat woman. This whole fat acceptance movement is a coping mechanism for obese women because when a man is fat, he is considered unattractive. It is very hypocritical.

If they had the option to choose between fat and skinny, men will pick skinny just as women will pick a tall man over a short man. Which by the way, height can’t be changed while fat can be loss thru healthy lifestyle. So women have it easier than men by far.

And sure there are different taste in attractiveness but that’s only after they cross the attractiveness threshold. There’s a fine line between good looking and ugly people. Preferences only occur once that attractiveness line is crossed.

 

ie. they only want Chads with V-shaped torsos, Greco Roman athletic muscular physiques. Dam it’s hard work being a Man.

 

Men are like this in some areas too, like with stretch marks. Men will pick a woman with no stretch marks over a woman with stretch marks anytime they are given the chance. Stretch marks can't be removed regardless of what we do. Also, there's cellulite, men will pick a woman with no cellulite in her body than woman with cellulite in her body anytime they can. If you are a woman trying to get rid of cellulite is a sisyphean project you'll never be able to acheive; since you'll be constantly fighting against your own hormones and genetics.

 

I'm attracted to them, but I don't pay them any attention.

More focused on improving myself and getting my priorities straight.

That's not to say that I wouldn't like a girlfriend or to get married, but I have to improve myself before I can worry about that.

I shouldn't expect them to be who I want them to be when I'm not who I want to be.

So I'm still attracted to them, but they're no longer a priority.

 

Another weird thread that gives off huge vibes that there are some people here whose only experience with women is porn and 2000's reality shows.

I don't date men over 5'7". I'm 5'3" and my husband is 5'7" and he's almost uncomfortably tall for me. I prefer around my height, give or take a couple inches. I tend to prefer men who are losing some hair, and I prefer thin men to muscular. All that to say that different people definitely have different types. There are the very athletic men at my gym and it's just not my thing at all. I feel unbalanced next to bigger men because I'm a tiny lady.

 

It actually is an opinion. I like short men. 5’7 is the perfect height. I like heftier men, not attracted at all to thin men, or tall men. Attraction is different for everyone. Just because you think a good looking guy is with an ugly women doesn’t mean everyone thinks that. I see ugly men with attractive women all the time! But, I’m looking at men with what’s attractive to me and women with what I think is attractive. You may have a completely different gauges for both the men and the women. I do not find blonde men attractive no matter what they look like but think blonde women are very attractive. I don’t like redheads in either sex. I think freckles are ugly, my daughter loves them.

me too! I am not attracted to tall men, 5’7 is perfect. I also don’t like thin men, I like them a little hefty, lol. I also don’t like face hair. My sisters like their husbands long beards. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has different opinions.

 

I strongly disagree because my attraction has changed. In my teens and early 20s, I thought girls who wore glasses were ugly but in my late 20s, I started to find women who wore glasses really attractive. In fact, all my girlfriends wore glasses.

Depends on what you mean by thin and fat. I think most guys wouldn't want to date a woman with anorexia and a great number of guys found Taylor Swift more attractive after she put on weight. Now some guys might not like her new look but that's a matter of opinion. I don't find someone who's extremely fat attractive but someone who is somewhat chubby can be attractive.

Having said that I somewhat agree with you about the fat acceptance movement. Some of it's gotten ridiculous. There was that time when Jen Hatmaker got accused of being fatphobic because she posted on Twitter that she and her friends decided it was time for them to lose weight and they were keeping each other accountable. There is nothing wrong with trying to lose weight but when losing it's important to take care of your mental health while doing it. It should be said that people have different body types. Some people could never be super skinny even if they had a strict diet and exercise programme.

Well, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if you think that you think that. I must say though I've seen photos of actresses who looked where extremely attractive when they were young but I found them in more recent photos to be rather unattractive.

 

Very well put. I think too, what you think is fat, what I think is fat, and what others think, can all be vastly different. I do agree, that being obese for anyone is not what I consider attractive, but being a little fat is not unattractive to me.

 

We were wrong guys, even the Manlets all struggling to get a date with a woman these days. The women in this thread have spoken and we were wrong about women all along. Women don’t really like tall, muscular handsome Men.