How do you know what you’re attracted to?

Ya I try to go be active when I start drooling for pure physical touch in my right mind I want to create a deep interpersonal bond with a woman here not sex that deprives us of bonding emotionally knowing the limits of her libido by communicating and listening tells me she wants much more than a penis

 

It's not really something you have to think about; you just know

 

How old are you?

 

This is right.

 

And you are young so this is evil. And the other one dont fool with neighbor boy. You will regret it.

 

Not too much I can say. My recommendation is to not think too deeply about it. You are 13 and curious. The biggest advice I can give is to stay away from the porn and that it's OK to not be having sex. If possible, find peers who stay away from porn. Also, most of the guys around you are just trying to act cool and are lying about what they are doing.

As for sex, my personal opinion is that it's for between a man and a woman in marriage.