How can you avoid ejaculation during kissing?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Kiriakos123, Nov 21, 2018.

  1. Kiriakos123

    Kiriakos123 Fapstronaut

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    Hey there nofap fam.Im 15 yo.The last month I'm in nofap, day 29,and I want to date a hot girl of my school.I made little research and saw cases in which men ejaculated when kissing a (hot) girl.So,how do I avoid that and getting too sexual?Any advice? Thanks
     
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  2. Slick Willie

    Slick Willie Fapstronaut

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    Ha! Total BS! I kiss my wife 2 maybe 3 times a day and not so much as a twitch!
    Dont sweat it!
     
  3. MetaGame

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    I get turned on by kissing and u might even get a little precum going but it is very rare to ejaculate from just kissing even if u tried on purpose lol.

    In regards on preventing it from getting too sexual unless ur on hard mode u can have sex with a woman. If ur worried about ur nofap benefits it returns after a few days or u can fool around and not ejaculate if u have the will power. If u want to prevent it in general I'd say just be minimally honest when the time comes. If its just dating then ur assuming u will get lucky. If u get lucky I suggest u wear a condom and dw so much and u can always say can we have sex at a later date? Im tryin not to have sex for this month.
     
  4. Ridley

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    My advice is that you're overthinking it. I think it's very unlikely that you would ejaculate just from kissing a girl (even if she's "hot" as you said).

    Besides, ejaculating with a partner isn't fapping. It's a healthy, real sexual experience. Ultimately, it depends on your goals. If you're just looking to quit porn and masturbation, then ejaculating with a partner isn't really an issue. If you're looking to cut out porn, masturbation, and orgasm (even from sex), then you might just want to take things slower with her for a while. Whatever your goals are, communicate your intent clearly to your partner. If you're uncomfortable with the idea of ejaculating with her, then tell her that. Communication is key!
     
  5. Kiriakos123

    Kiriakos123 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks mann
     
  6. Kiriakos123

    Kiriakos123 Fapstronaut

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    K!
     
  7. Kiriakos123

    Kiriakos123 Fapstronaut

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    Appreciated that
     
  8. You could avoid it by not being 15 years old
     
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  9. Kiriakos123

    Kiriakos123 Fapstronaut

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  10. SpoonDog

    SpoonDog Fapstronaut

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    Don’t worry, it’s not going to happen, I can assure you.
     
  11. Master Of Puppets

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    That only happens to people with an extremely severe case of premature ejaculation, which you most likely don't have so you should be all good.
     
  12. Limitbreaker

    Limitbreaker Fapstronaut

    Feel comfortable in your own body, even if it happens, if you feel comfortable and enjoy it, she will like it and probably she will feel honored so enjoy it. The more you try to hold the feelings back the harder it will explode
     
  13. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    That must be a really awkward thing to experience. Does that count as a sexual activity with a partner or as M?
     

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