Horny days :(

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by paloloj9, Dec 2, 2016.

  1. paloloj9

    paloloj9 Fapstronaut

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    Hi everybody
    Today I'm on my 50th day ..that makes me really proud, but I'm really triggered right now..
    Let me tell you.. last days I met a Milf and well I've been texting with her in a really hot sense ..the thing is that I don't know if she wants to fuck or she's just playing with me ..because when I propose her to date she gives excuses like "I'm just knowing you" ..but then we talk about sex and the way she likes to do it...sooo as you can imagine I've been very horny these days, so much that my balls are literally hurting..
    I have the sense to masturbate..but I don't want, for me and for many others M falls then in P ..and well reboot over and over again..
    I need your advices ..I don't want to recover PMO never again..
    Thanks for reading
     
  2. lp123

    lp123 Fapstronaut

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    don't fantasize is my advice. don't anticipate sex too much, go with the flow. because If you get your self worked up and it doesn't happen, there's a strong chance you'll end up releasing the tension thru a relapse. try and meditate to transmute this sexual energy your building into productivity.
     
  3. it's not worth loosing 50 days over. forget about her. just my thought. your playing wit
    stop! it's not worth loosing 50 days over. I don't think you really want to keep moving forward with that relationship? it's just the hornyness of not doing anything for 50 days! stick with your goal. don't mess up your 50 days!
     
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  4. Green_Tea

    Green_Tea Fapstronaut

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    Remain calm, let her talk, and don't get worked up over it, she could just be cock-teasing you. Stay focused!
     
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  5. douggie1962

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    “Mastering the art of seduction gives one a great power, and like any power, it's to be wielded with responsibility; a man (or woman) who wields the art of seduction without a sense of responsibility and restraint is a walking proximity bomb of viral epidemics, needless procreation, heartbroken families, and shattered dreams.”
    Mike Norton

    As tempting as this may seem, be very careful with this one. You have worked hard to get where you are, and only you know what is at stake. She is little more than a stranger at this point. You have much better on the horizon.

    Be Strong My Friend.
     
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  6. thefaptrap

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    50 days? Man that's awesome, don't throw it away..keep talking to her and see where it goes, as a man to another I could tell you to not Think about fucking her but it's hard not too..it's those times u don't give into PMO is when u build character and self control..let when that actually happens, if it happens, to be your prize ..if not,stay the path my friend.
     
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  7. paloloj9

    paloloj9 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for your support..I'm gonna take it easy
     
  8. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

    HappyDaysAreHereAgain Fapstronaut

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    Sounds like a unified message. Your FIFTY DAYS are awesome. Don't risk them. She is not a person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Don't get scammed, stay on track for a great future. YOU CAN DO IT.
     
  9. NMIE

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    U chatting with hot woman about sex? Dont be surprised u r horny as hell... also i think it most likely take u back to PMO if u dont stop it... this is very dangerous. Yes u can have sex with her maybe... but what if you wont? Do you really want to risk your awesome progress just for random stranger?