Hitting On Customers At Work?

So I work in a high customer interaction job. Lots of different people coming into the store each day.

If I wanted, I could probably make about 2-3 approaches every day I’m at work and try to get numbers from the women customers.

Anyone here ever make their workplace a place to make approaches?

Over the past few years I’ve asked a few girls if they wanted to hang out, but I rarely ever do it. Do you think it’s a good idea?

 

No, there is no policy. The only risk would be a customer getting offended and calling the corporate office to complain. But I doubt that would happen as long as I am genuine and nice

 

Yea I will not go full into trying to approach customers at my job. Maybe every once in a while if they seem to be extra interested in me. I'm not even worried as it being seen as harassment, because I have never once in my life been accused of being harassing when asking a woman out, as long as I was being genuine, nice, and actually truly liked her.

But just for my own peace of mind, I won't continuously ask girls at my work for their phone numbers. I can do that outside of work when I am more anonymous if I choose to do so in the future

 

Yea I won't do it. I will just ask out girls outside of my work if I really feel like doing it. I will only ask a girls phone number at work if she seems interested in me.

 

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Thanks for this response. Yea I’ve never had anything bad happen to me as long as I genuinely am attracted to the girl and am nice when I ask them out, like at work.

I think what I can do is decide before I go into work whether or not today will be a “try to talk to girl customers” day, or if it will just solely be a work day. If I decide to make it an asking day, I can do it when no coworkers are around and IF my initial conversation with her seems to be going well.

So as long as I don’t overdo it and am somewhat discrete about it, it should be fine to do this

 

Well, I just meant to get myself mentally motivated to talk to women in a different way than just as a customer. Not for reaching a daily quota.

Basically, I just meant if I’m feeling really good, then maybe I will say to myself, “okay, I will try talking to some girls today”

Because usually, at my job, the interactions with customers are very brief. So I would have no way of really knowing if there is any connection between us other than thinking they are attractive or not.

So I would need to proactively try to talk to the women for a longer period of time than usual.

Yea, there also is a possibility of a natural connection happening on any day, and then yea, I would need to ask for the number no matter what day it is.

But yea, of course I would only ask a girl on a date if there was something about her, and not at all for reaching a daily quota.

So we are thinking along the same lines. Yea I just think your perspective on it is slightly different since you are the one being asked out versus the one doing the asking out

 

Yea, that’s a good idea. It is hard to tell if some of the women customers are just being nice, or if they are actually interested.

So yea, maybe I will start asking some questions and giving small compliments and see if she responds with more conversation or not