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Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Kristen, Sep 4, 2017.

  1. Kristen

    Kristen Fapstronaut

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    i don't really know what place to put this at but while I do rub myself to porn and enjoy watching it my addiction is excessive masterbation even to nothing. As a little kid I can remember doing it so much my mom would constantly watch me to make sure I wasn't sticking my hands down my pants when company was over. As I got older after a couple things happened I use it more when I was stressed or angry, now I use it when I am in the mood but mostly I use it at night when I can't sleep
     
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  2. BoBo129

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    That is a habit you need to break @Kristen. How many times do you masturbate a day?
     
  3. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Do you have a naturally high sex drive
     
  4. Dr_prof

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    Moderate use of m in a non addictive way is fine. If you find yourself compulsively doing it you need to stop. Good luck
     
  5. You'll feel so much better without it in your life. Good luck on your nofap journey.
     
  6. Third_Eye

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    You just gotta distract your mind from things that would make you do that. It's all in your head! You just gotta stay strong, and keep yourself busy! :)
     
  7. Kristen

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    At least once a day mostly at night
     
  8. Kristen

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    THATS the word my therapist said-compulsive hypersexuality. Thanks I knew there was another word
     
  9. Third_Eye

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    In order for you to break out of your addiction, you have to cut porn and masturbation out of your life. You also have to cut all of your stresses, worries, triggers, and urges too. This way, you can be able to improve! :)
     
  10. Kristen

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    Yes I think so but I don't really know what is considered normal
     
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  11. Kristen

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    Well I was exposed to sex since I was 8 so that seems a lot to get rid of
     
  12. Third_Eye

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    Wait, what do you mean being "exposed to sex" at a young age? Also, I think it's best to get a porn filter.
     
  13. Dr_prof

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    I guess the vast majority of women and take or leave masturbation and porn. If you don't fall into that category then you need to stop for a while. perhaps after a year or so you will find you can manage better or when you have a steady bf. Just don't be harsh on yourself. you've been exposed to sex far too early in life and as a result will need a lot of work undoing all the problems it has caused.
     
  14. tweeby

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    Symptomatic of abuse and SSA. Best to see a therapist. In my opinion
     
  15. Kristen

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    Yes And I am in therapy and have been for sometime. I didn't know how much I'm able to say here in this site since it is dealing with sexual addictions
     
  16. MarinoBigFan1984

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    How does your therapist reccomend you stop?
     
  17. Kristen

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    She doesn't know the extent of my masterbation and my thoughts but has given me general stress relieving techniques. The problem is it feels good and I enjoy it the times I do it once but the days I am do stressed out and doing it 7 times I know I'm abusing myself to get the orgasm high
     
  18. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Have you considered wearing a chastity device?
     
  19. Eviledging

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    This kinda sounds like you were sexually abused. I would say if u feel comfortable talking about it then it's ok to post. Sometimes others knowing the cause of ur compulsions may help you more in the long run. But others can feel free to chime in
     
  20. Kristen

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    It was a molestation by a relative that started when I was 8 and ended when I was 10 and a sexual "incident" when I was 12