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Here because of delayed ejaculation

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by ontarius, May 22, 2017.

  1. ontarius

    ontarius Fapstronaut

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    Hi!
    There is exactly one problem i hope to cure with nofap: Delayed ejaculation
    As hard as i try i cant cum during intercourse, always have to use my hands to finish.
    As far as i saw, there are quite a few succes stories concerning this kind of problem.
    Otherwise i am not experiencing problems because of porn and masturbation, but this one is frustrating enough to really give abstinence a try.
     
  2. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
  3. LakeMichigan

    LakeMichigan Fapstronaut

    Welcome to nofap. I assure you DE is not the only problem but others haven't manifested themselves for what ever reason. In my early 30s I clearly remember the day I recognized that my morning wood is not the same any more..I went to a physician and he couldn't actually tell me anything because I had reasonable testosterone in my blood so he prescribed me blue pills! My sex life was mediocre for most of my life and never had orgasms through oral and until I read the stories here I actually didn't know they all had the same root cause: PMO!
    Stick around and after having a decent streak you will notice all the other benefits because of nofap.I wish you good luck!
     
  4. Bearish

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    Have you ever had easy climax? I haven't...yet. :)
     
  5. ontarius

    ontarius Fapstronaut

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    Still sceptical about the other proposed benefits of nofap, but if i experience any of them ofc i will happily embrace them. At least it will be a great training of will power,since sexual desire can be such a big thing.
    No, i never had easy climax, but thats ok, i dont want to have premature ejaculation either. But now, after some years of beeing single and almost daily PMO,including what is called the "death grip" here, sensitivity has definetly decreased.
     
  6. Bearish

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    Great. Then give it a serious try. It's been helpful to me so far. Part of the issue is retraining yourself it what's "erotic." P is so unreal, that it eclipses all of the reality of connection with other people. So desensitizing is certainly part, but so also is letting go of its nightmarish eroticism.
     
  7. Caped Crusader

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    There is a common denominator with sexual problems: PMO.

    After consuming a daily diet of PMO for a lengthy season, I developed PIED and DE.

    It is one thing to not be able to get an erection, but it equally frustrating when you can reach the pinnacle of sexual intercourse: ejaculation.

    After a 30 day reboot, my PIED became a thing of the past and my DE as well.

    Our brains need time to heal from the overstimulation that Porn provides and our equipment needs to be resensitized to the real thing.
     
  8. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

  9. ontarius

    ontarius Fapstronaut

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    Such great results after just a 30 days reboot, thats encouraging!
     
  10. Caped Crusader

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    It takes time for the brain to reset itself back to 'factory mode' status.

    And, our equipment needs to become resensitized to the real thing and not to our hands.

    This is a process that takes time and shouldn't be rushed.
     
  11. Bearish

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    And you won't be always aware of the progress you're making. It's a bit of a faith leap.
     
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