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Help with women,problems,low self-esteem and sex drive.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by V.Faptor, Mar 22, 2017.

  1. Mar 22, 2017 #1
    V.Faptor

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    Hi all!

    My porn addiction got out of hands somewhere around age of 12-13 when we got proper internet at home and it has been a problem to this day.

    Anyways..I am 23y, i have social anxiety,low self-esteem,no relationship experience, erection problems,some curiosity towards men(not sure if it's fake fantasy from porn or real..i do have toys) and i have been with a woman, but only because i went to see escort.

    I have met this girl and she's the main reason i am here now.

    I wanna see if NoFap helps with my situation so that i can actually have a chance with her.
     
    V.Faptor, Mar 22, 2017
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  2. Mar 22, 2017 #2
    Detraks

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    Hey man I got a few things to tell you :D
    First of all welcome to Nofap I truly hope you get what your looking for on here your amongs friends here and we're all here to help each other out
    Second of all, Im not the oldest here (18) but I think I know what your looking for your looking for someone that can get you out right ? Well I know someone that can, its you. put the effort into it and you can do it just be aware the chaser effect is real and hard to deal with
    third of all Good luck with that girl bro
    Welcome to Nofap again
    best of luck
    stay strong
     
    Detraks, Mar 22, 2017
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  3. Mar 24, 2017 #3
    V.Faptor

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    Thanks for the support!
    Started with only 7 day goal, but im hoping to go for 30 days.
     
    V.Faptor, Mar 24, 2017
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  4. Mar 24, 2017 #4
    Detraks

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    Truly hope you get there bro I like the fact you start small before going up thats the true way of getting there too much people aim too hight before getting disapointed
    cheers

    PS sorry for any mispelling english isn't my first language (its french)
     
    Detraks, Mar 24, 2017
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  5. Mar 25, 2017 #5
    D . J .

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    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    How are you progressing today?

    What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
    D . J ., Mar 25, 2017
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  6. Mar 26, 2017 #6
    V.Faptor

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    Honestly i didn't think i can make more than couple days, but reading peoples experiences and getting support has made it easier. Day 5 now since i started on wednesday.

    Thanks!
    Yesterday was hard since i had to constantly be on internet and check out different sites. I tried to sleep during the day to rid of the anxiety feeling but had constant sexual thoughts coming in and boners..

    I'm trying to do this with willpower and hope with things getting better in my life. I'm also trying to get interest back in old hobbies...when i think about that, all of them have been thrown away because of porn taking too much time..
     
    V.Faptor, Mar 26, 2017
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  7. Mar 26, 2017 #7
    D . J .

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    D . J ., Mar 26, 2017
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