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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by leopard911, Mar 27, 2016.

  1. leopard911

    leopard911 Fapstronaut

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    Hey all, today i have completed 84 days thanks to god, but i don't know whats wrong with me these days, i feel more horny and got urges to view porn. dont know what to do, and suggestions please?
     
  2. Keep your mind on other things, man! For me, and I think for everyone if they're willing to admit it, thinking about sex/PMOing is a slippery slope. If you let yourself dwell on how horny you are, it's not going to get any better and it will probably lead to a relapse. Just make a choice to think about something else, do something else to get your mind off of things.

    Also, congrats on a great streak. That's hard work. Don't wanna slip back into old patterns! Stay strong, man.

    Edit: Something I've learned to tell myself: Unless I'm about to have sex, there's no reason to be thinking about sex. If you think about it, that's really true. If there's no option for release aside from PMO, you might as well just stop thinking about it, because thinking about it is opening the door to PMO as an "option," which isn't what you want.
     
  3. Phibz

    Phibz Fapstronaut

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    It's called growing pains. You are still growing. 84 days is awesome, but it is still ONLY 84 days. This is a slow, painful process. What you are experiencing will pass and you will be better for it. I still struggle. Only I struggle with other issues besides porn. If I were to be wrapped up in PMO, I wouldn't have even been able to address the other issues bc I wouldnt be able to see them as clearly as I do now. I have a lot of pain to go through, yet. Be patient. We've got a lot of unlearning to do.
     
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  4. avatarivn

    avatarivn Fapstronaut

    Congratulations for reaching such a feature (84 days). About you being horny, its just your brain making a last effort to get a Porn fix, but you must keep going forward on your streak.
     

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