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Help me, do I have ED ?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Maкето, Mar 29, 2018.

  1. Maкето

    Maкето Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I really need help with this... first of all, I am almost 16 years old male and I used to watch porn often, but in the last 4 or 5 months I almost gave up on it... I have masturbated maybe no more than 6 times since then.. I have noticed some weird changes into me... first of all I had very low sex drive, wasn't interested in sex all... then I though I had PIED, but eventually I found out I can get it up by thinking...However, the thing is its not as hard as if I am watching my favorite pornstar( i found her so attrractive and hot)or sth like that, then my penis is very hard.. for example If I browse bikini models of Instagram or fantasize the first 2 or 3 times in a day I get a hard erection by it but after that it I get an erection but if measured it is like 90 degrees from the stomach ( not as high as the previous ones ) and it is not as hard. I do get morning wood but again I have had harder times.. So, is this some kind of problem? I think this "issue" is caused by some hormonal stuff, cuz I am in puberty ? What do you think ?
     
  2. Strong Spiderman

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  3. Maкето

    Maкето Fapstronaut

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    What should not I do ? Can you answer my question , do I have any ED? I have quitted PMO since December. I relapsed 2 or 3 times but it wasn't with porn
     
  4. Strong Spiderman

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  5. Maкето

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    I haven't relapsed during night if that's what you are asking
     
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  7. Maкето

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    So, could you answer my question ?
     
  8. MichaelDracula

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    It's not hormonal stuff. It's the beginning of PIED. You have to calm down and stop watching porn completely. When you stop watching porn, you will have very strong sexual urges, times when you feel asexual (not having any desire at all) with OCD and voices in the head telling you to start watching porn. You will not act on those urges. It can take 1-2 years for some to heal, but because you are young and still have erections, your reboot will take less.
    When you heal, never watch porn again, have sex with all the women you want and consider yourself lucky, that you escaped this horrible thing.
     
  9. Maкето

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    Are you sure about that? I have asked so many people on reddit and everyone told me that my situation is normal and it is higly unlikely to have PIED when you are 16. I have given up porn already, no worry about that. The thing is , will 90 days be enough for everything to get fixed, if it needs to be
     
  10. Maкето

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    Plus that i can get quite hard by fantasizing sometimes, so things might not be that bad yet
     
  11. MichaelDracula

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    16 yo should not ask questions about the strength of his erections. You should have the most powerful erections at that age. I never said it's PIED, I said it's the beginning of PIED and if you continue, it will only get worse. The only way to preserve your sexual health is to have sex and never masturbate and watch porn again. This shouldn't be question of 90 days, it should be lifetime decision. If you stop masturbating, you stop masturbating FOREVER.

    After 90 days try to get a girl and wire to real thing. Faster you do that, less problems you will have in the future.
     
  12. Maкето

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    You didnt get me.. i mean will it get fixed or at least better for 90 days.. i wont PMO again, trust me.,. i learnt from my mistake.. is my situation. that bad?
     
  13. MichaelDracula

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    Yes, after 90 days it will 100% get better. Your situation is not bad at all.
     
  14. Maкето

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    Look, you missunderstood. I have not lost absolutely desire in sexual activity, if i wasnt aware of the consequences , i would watch porn whenever I want and fap, because it feels good. The thing is it is unhealthy. This year i started to be more mature, to overthink a bit and question my habits. I still look for girls but i am not sure if i must get an erection every time i see a hot ass or sth in public. Thats why i am asking, if I look at nude body builder pics i do get hell hard. I can even get hard by fantasizing (not for or related to porn) but not every time.Consider that please and if it makes sense or change your opinion,tell me
     
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  15. MichaelDracula

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    Let me explain to you. PIED doesn't always mean you lost your interest in sexual activity. PIED means not being able to get it up with real girl. Now, some people have mild PIEDs, when they can get it up with girls, but sex doesn't seem as satisfying as porn and masturbation. Sometimes, they get weak erections with girls, and stronger erections with porn.

    Well, that means it is 100% PIED and most likely if you attempt real sex with real girl you will fail. You get hard, because you masturbated to so many jacked nude dudes, that your reward system is assigned now to see naked men as form of pleasure. If you continue watching porn it is question of a year, maybe less, until you start watching gay porn and questioning your sexuality.
     
  16. Maкето

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    But i can get it up by fantasizing, i mean an erection, plus that when i see hot girl in public there is a movement down there, it is not like nothing happens...
     
  17. MichaelDracula

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    Fantasizing and real sex are different things.

    There is no point of discussing this further, if you started having erection to jacked naked dudes, that means that your reward system is already screwed. You have to stop watching porn and masturbating for at least 90 days until you attempt any real sex.
     
  18. Maкето

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    I wont be attempting it in the next 1 or 2 years. I just want to be sure that I am not completely fucked. The only thing I don't like about this forum is that you guys are so obsessed with these kind of problems that you almost always say someone have them, without thinking about it that much. I have posted at least 3 post about this on reddit and almost everyone told me that this is completely normal and if I use porn moderation ( I wont use porn again though) there wont be any problem and that it is normal during puberty especially to have periods with very high and low libido. Plus the fact that I can get hard even without porn means that I don't have any problem, judging by their opinions
     
  19. MichaelDracula

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    You can't be completely fucked, there are people who watched porn that mismatched their sexual orientation, had real life gay sex and then recovered. You can always recover.
    I never said you are completely fucked, I said you have a problem as long as you get erection when you see pics of naked dudes. I imagine you self-identify as straight. Then it's not normal. Also, it's not normal that at the age of 16 you ask about your erection strength. That's the age where you have most powerful erections. Heck, before porn usage was common even 50 yo never asked those type of questions.

    You are right now basically in denial, which leads me to believe you actually have some problems, otherwise you won't be posting this.
     
  20. Maкето

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    Dude, by body builders I mean women body builders... like Savannah Rehm, Ana Cheri,..... Not men, it is almost sure that I have some kind of problem but I start to think it is not PIED, at least not yet. And I am sure it wont get there because I will stop. I am just asking to try figure out if it is something other, I read about PIED and I got scared. I might just be desentinized.
     

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