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Have I become addicted to NoFap?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by -DR, Nov 17, 2020.

  1. -DR

    -DR Fapstronaut

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    Today is my 135th day of NoFap and no PMO. I started because I wanted to improve my productivity at school, but then I just kept going. I even got to the point where I even refused to date, or persuade myself that I didn't need anybody. Two weeks ago however, I met a fantastic girl, and we got together. It's a young relationship, but she seems very serious about it, and that makes me happy. She makes me happy.
    However, rumors spread about my NoFap choice, and people just assume I'm doing that because I'm socially awkward or because i cannot "get laid". So that I've basically given up on a part of life because I'm some sort of failure.
    For the first time, today that hit home: what if they are right?
    What if I'm actually an awkward, embarrassing, unlikable individual that cannot get laid? Would giving up on NoFap change this?
     
  2. False promise

    False promise Fapstronaut

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    Let people think anything they want about you.. it doesn’t matter. You know the truth of why you’re doing this, don’t you? If you are a socially awkward person in general, giving up on nofap wouldn’t change anything for the better. If anything it would make it worse. Just keep going man and don’t let other people’s limitations hold you back.
     
  3. If you were awkward and unlikeable retaining would make you more like likeable and outgoing. Its already been shown in studies that retaining increases T levels and this will make you more patient, care less what others think, give you more drive and ability. Others know nothing of the benefits of Nofap. Don’t even entertain what these people think or say. You’re far above them already
     
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  4. iwanttoheal

    iwanttoheal Fapstronaut

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    Have you got what you wanted out of nofap and feel like you’re ready to date?
     
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  5. Steveal3aneef1

    Steveal3aneef1 Fapstronaut

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    aren't you happy with NOFAP?? damn, Some people are still struggling to achieve what you have achieved, you should be proud instead of feeling awkward about some else's opinion.
     
  6. Ainz

    Ainz Fapstronaut

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    Yes, Giving up on Nofap will do the trick. You will become as famous as you were before joining NoFap. You were getting laid before NoFap right ?? If you seriously think, NoFap has made is worse than before, after 135 days of streak, you should quit.
     
  7. ruso

    ruso Fapstronaut

    You got the girl, so she liked you. Everything else anyone says in your surroundings about this choice is completely pointless.

    Continue to not watch porn, and only share with a few people you trust, and even then if they don’t like what you are doing, agree to disagree and go on to talk about other things. Get out of the forum as much as possible, and continue to hone your interests.
     
  8. Different Built

    Different Built Fapstronaut

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    Bro they’re just haters because they can’t have the discipline to do NoFap. Screw them. Start working really hard, kick their ass in everything. Then they’ll shut up
     

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