Have a few questions...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Willpower23, Jun 30, 2016.

  1. Willpower23

    Willpower23 Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone, I'm new here and yesterday i decided to start NoFap due to the fact that I can't feel much at all when its come to PiV or oral sex. A little about me. I'm 22years old and I am uncircumcised, started using deathgrip since I was 13-14 with no lube or anything . I'm currently dating this amazing woman and she currently doesn't know about my issue (know she wondering) . At the moment she's out of the country visiting her family for about a month, so I figured i wouldn't pmo or even look at porn. I got to 3-4days then fucked up. So I'm on day to with 20days to go. My goal is hopefully to be able to come while either having sex or oral pleasure. Do you think this will be possible ? I'm also using man1 man oil daily and after every shower, useful or doesn't matter? Just hoping they i can feel something or finally my first "real" O.
    Also I'm very happy to hear from everyone but kinda also want feed back with ppl who are uncut and used deathgrip and their journey and how long did it take to feel something pleasurable. Really sorry if I made ppl feel weird at the end of this, I just figured an uncut penis would heal a lot fast then a cut but again I wouldn't know.
    Thanks s bunch for your feed back everyone.!!! Let's beat this harmful side of us!!!
     
  2. Ben Jamin'

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    Getting rid of PIED can take anywhere from two weeks to a year. It depends on a lot of things:
    1) Age - the older you are, the less time it takes
    2) How often you fap
    3) How many bad thoughts you have about women during you reboot
    4) Your genes

    These are only a few of the factors.

    Just make sure you don't relapse or fantasize, abd you will have given yourself the best chance of success.

    Good luck!
     
  3. The Eleven

    The Eleven Fapstronaut

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    I didn't get the sense that the OP is dealing with PIED. Sounds like he's dealing with DE -- delayed ejaculation -- but maybe he can tell us so we can try to help. In any event -- yes, avoiding porn and masturbation should, in time, help you with either problem. How long it takes to fix will depend on how long it took you to create the problem.
     
  4. Willpower23

    Willpower23 Fapstronaut

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    thank for the great response!! and also its not like i cant get hard or maintain the erection. its just that i can't feel shit :( but im sure its more that i have DE since i cant really feel it and reach an O during PiV.
     
  5. Willpower23

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    either way i wanna stop and i dnt think my habits were that bad, i used to only do it once a day but always wenever i did it was with deathgrip:( once in awhile 2-3 but mostly used to help me sleep. also i dnt know wat too much or alot is, is there like a number or sumthin lol?