Hi there, I was wondering at all if watching porn has changed your views on sex or made sex in real life any less boring? When having sex a couple of times with my girlfriend, I found myself wanting to do things like ejaculate on her face or do weirder positions, all things i've seen on porn. Although I know this is just fantasy and it's not even remotely fair to suggest something like this to my girlfriend as it'll make her feel she has to meet the porn industries standards. What about yourselves?
Dude overtime porn warps your mind. From your post it sounds like it has already influenced you to do other things which may not be harmful in themselves but it's the influence of the porn you should be aware of. Check out the Ted talk "your brain on porn" I'm sure there is a link in the FAQ or something. That influence is powerful. You may cross boundaries that are not in your nature. Porn is not defensible. There is no upside to it. When you rationalize about it making sex less boring that indicates that your brain already has moved beyond normal human sexuality and craves something more. Continue to PMO and that craving will expand. Generations before ours had no internet porn available at a click of a button yet they saved the world from tyranny and later invented the internet so my generation can now see more nude beautiful woman than they would have seen in real life if that had a hundred lifetimes. The result? So many in our generation can't even get with a chick or lack social skills or live in an unproductive way day after day. So no it doesn't make it less boring it makes it ultimately unfulfilling. At almost age 20 I've been there and done that and I'm not going back. Now you decide.
