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Hard success so far

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Kyle23, Jun 4, 2019.

  1. Jun 4, 2019 #1
    Kyle23

    Kyle23 Fapstronaut

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    Nearly been a month since I last watched pornography and in that time My partner and I had our two girls with a safe entrance into this world. Seeing these two girls come into my life has given me so much more strength. Seeing these two girls makes me see clearer in the way that all girls start off like this and how can I watch porn when all the actresses I watch were this innocent and precious.. I respect my partner more than I ever have. And as for my journey quitting porn, it has become easier. I’m speaking quite early but I find I just can’t do it anymore. Once you see a beautiful girl with you made with your beloved enter this world, it’s hard to watch such a harmful and disgusting visual.

    As for me personally, I’ve come to realise I need some sort of affection to show I am loved. I’m thinking back to my childhood where I hardly got physical love growing up and pornographers picked up the lost time... I love my partner so much and I can’t help but feel unloved when we have sex once a week or maybe twice a fortnight. Has anyone faced this problem? How do I cope with having less sexual attention without feeling depressed as I do? I thank god for my two new babies for being healthy and my new found strength for quitting porn.
     
    Kyle23, Jun 4, 2019
    Kyle23, Jun 4, 2019
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  2. Jun 4, 2019 #2
    properWood

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    Kudos, now that is the source and the essence of it all! We're soothing our lack of emotional pain and love with a poor substitute.


    I don't follow, she just gave birth, give her some time to recover, adjust and feel better again. She will be focused for a while on your two girls and you may get jealous and feel probably rejected at times. The kids are what's super important to her, as a mother, at this time, but it's not permanent. What you can do is to avoid being needy or unsupporting, make sure you are taking care of yourself and of them, both emotionally and physically. For the time being, you'll have to show yourself love only through your own. Read a lot, say, about child development.

    On a side note, I have not had sex in 2 years; I'm not saying you should go like that, that would be ridiculous, but for a few weeks without sex it won't be the end of the world.
     
    properWood, Jun 4, 2019
    properWood, Jun 4, 2019
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