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Had sex with someone.

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Rabar, Dec 26, 2018.

  1. Rabar

    Rabar Fapstronaut

    Hi guys. Today i had sex with a guy and even if I should not consider that as a relapse( cause i am in a PM reboot) i felt strange after i did that. Plus it was extremely difficult to me to have an orgasm. Is it normal? I am on my 14th day of rebooting.
     
  2. KennyCZ

    KennyCZ Fapstronaut

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    I had sex orgasm yesterday and today I feel like shit lol
     
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  3. Rabar

    Rabar Fapstronaut

    So i am not the only one to feel like that! Good to know lol
     
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  4. arken3

    arken3 Fapstronaut

    Have you never had this difficulty in sex before? I would say my experience and reading other's stories indicates that it is very common to have trouble with real sex if you are addicted to P. That's what makes NoFap so important and why many of us are here. You'll have to get through the reboot before that side effect improves, most likely.
     
  5. Rabar

    Rabar Fapstronaut

    Yes, unfortunately i had... but, you know, i am already into my rebooting as i am on the standard mode and i haven’t yet relapsed. So what do you mean?
     
  6. arken3

    arken3 Fapstronaut

    I said getting through the reboot, meaning 90 days from now or whatever # you came up with for your reboot you should see a change in how you feel after sex.
     
  7. Rabar

    Rabar Fapstronaut

    Ok, sorry. How long did it take to feel better in real sex for you?
     
  8. KennyCZ

    KennyCZ Fapstronaut

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    I was on 204 days and on day 150 we had sex and I've felt still the same so the problem is orgasm. We had some sexes without orgasm and it was pretty good
     
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  9. Rabar

    Rabar Fapstronaut

    Wow, 150 days is huge! And still some issue!
     
  10. Fenston999

    Fenston999 Fapstronaut

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    That's called karezza or coitus reservatus and it is said to have many benefits when practiced with a spouse.
     
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  11. KennyCZ

    KennyCZ Fapstronaut

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    I will come back to that, because it is really better.
     
  12. Rabar

    Rabar Fapstronaut

    You are right guys, when having soft sex I feel better than struggling to have an orgasm.
     

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