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gosh.. feeling depressed right now

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by NeverAroused, May 21, 2018.

  1. NeverAroused

    NeverAroused Fapstronaut

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    45 days in Still nothing. I "had" sex for the first time today. Could only get a 50% erection, never aroused... could only reach orgasm through handjob. Tried with sex for 10 min. I'm feeling so depressed right now.

    :( why o why
     
  2. Foxhole

    Foxhole Fapstronaut

    Hi. Don't be so hard on yourself. Maybe you're just too concerned about it. Its natural have issues with erection when you're stressed. I suggest just put your erection out of the equation. Enjoy each other and dont care about penetration. Its not about goals, it should be about fun.

    Although - if you feel 100% relaxed and attracted to your SO and still cant get erection, you should probably consult with your doctor as it may be a somatic issue.

    But no matter what dont let it drag you down. There are more important stuff in life than rock solid erection. Love is not only about sex, sex is not only about penetration and penetration is not only about orgasm.

    Stay strong. Keep you in my thoughs bro.
     
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  3. NeverAroused

    NeverAroused Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the kind reply. Already went to my doctor weeks ago, everything was fine.
     
  4. James0224

    James0224 Fapstronaut

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    THIS
     
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  5. Foxhole

    Foxhole Fapstronaut

    So great, good news. You can do it. Just let your mind cool down, dont stress about performance and enjoy it. You can do it ;)
     
  6. leppardfan25

    leppardfan25 Fapstronaut

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    My friend, dont give up! I exactly know what you feel because I passed through it too unfortunately. Keep fighting,with time its gonna be better and healed, if its related to PMO. And dont stress yourself about it, be cool :) Its gonna be allright!
     

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