hi guys, its been 3 years since i've had a meaningful relationship with a girl. i pmo every night and didn't think it was a problem until recent. i find myself unwilling to talk with girls or avoiding them altogether, preferring to pmo instead. when i do find myself in conversation with a girl (my mother, my cousin's wife, a friend) my mind gravitates towards very inappropriate thoughts and it is difficult to have a proper conversation. i'm just realizing how very wrong this is and its very hard for me to talk about it with people i know, so you guys are my only hope at recovery. okay, so my goal is to quit pmo indefinitely and find a girlfriend. i'll post here every night until i succeed. lets go guys.
Yes man I’m 30 years old and still struggle with porn man I’m on day 2 no PMO because I want it out of my life so I can have a real relationship with a woman
The first step is recognizing the problem. You've already done that. From now on, it's an uphill battle, but it pays off. I'm rooting for you.
I have the same project, quit PMO and find a girlfriend. For me this addiction was always a obstacle to have a relation with another people. Thanks God im in the process to be healed.
I am on day 2 aswell, are you in for a challenge? Lets make a challenge between us, lets aim for 90 days without PMO, who relapses should do 50 pushups and with every relapse the amount of pushups will increase. Wanna bet that I will beat you for 90 days?
haha, you're on redphoenix. we'll double the penalty every relapse > 50, 100, 200, etc. let the best man win. day 3, gathered the courage to msg a girl. still getting tempted by dirty pics and thoughts.
I just relapsed... 50 push up to do. Back to day 0. U wont beat me. I got a good plan to quit technology.
haha, you got spirit kid, ill give you that. day 4, saw a cute blonde on the street but thoughts of my future gf keep me focused xd
Day 1 check in, let the spirits go high. I am talking to a girl who might be my future wife. Let's gooooo
haha, yes redphoenix. day 5, i was thinking about pmo-ing today, but the thought of you guys helps me stay clean. lets go
day 1, i fucked up and pmo'd today. i felt so weak and ashamed after, realized it is just not worth it. did my 50 pushups. ready to tackle these 90 days.
Day 3 You got to be more powerful, don't let that gets you down, learn from it and go on. We can do it. Let's go.
I quit PMO and got a girlfriend and its amazing. Now however I'm scared of losing her if I relapse...
It's helpful to have a goal in mind besides getting a girlfriend. Remember—quitting PMO will make you stronger, more confident, and more capable of achieving your goals. Cheers!