Focus on meeting people, not in your strike

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Jesusmant, Oct 14, 2021.

  1. Jesusmant

    Jesusmant New Fapstronaut

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    I'm 25 and I'm a virgin. A couple of months ago, I was doing nofap. I made two months with only one fap. I was looking for morning woods and I didn't get more than two so it could be considered like a failure. (I don't think so)

    After those months, I relapsed and entered in a spiral with several faps per day. In addition, the porn I saw was sissy and femdom so you can imagine that I wasn't at my best.

    However, during this time of porn abuse I was meeting new people. And with people I include girls. There was a particular girl that I know she likes me. In a sexual way. It isn't reciprocal but it's the first time I feel sexually desired by a woman.

    What I try to say with this is that you can make the strike you want (which I encourage you to do because I think that It has some benefits). But If you are doing this because you are feeling lonely or something like that, you should focus on meeting more people, not in the number of your strike.
    I don't want to sound like r/WowImcured I know that get out of loneliness is hard but the only thing I want to say is that the most relevant variable it's the amount of social situations you put yourself. Not the number of day you don't fap
     
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