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Flatline Or Just Successful Rebooting?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Pixelated Victory, Aug 9, 2015.

  1. Aug 9, 2015 #1
    Pixelated Victory

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    I have absolutely no desire to watch porn anymore after over 70 days abstinence. I am also 30 days clean of any MO/ edging and ejac. I wouldn't say I no longer have any desire to masturbate however it is less often and less strong as the days go by it seems.

    If this so happens to be a Flatline, when should I expect the violent storm of strong urges to arrive? I have a lot of confidence in myself to defend the work I have put in so far, however I don't want Flatline to totally blindside me. I am already a 1/3 of the way to 90 days of no MO. PMO I am already almost there and I don't plan on stopping.

    If this is just a successful reboot, then do I have the green light to start to seek sex? To be honest I am a bit nervous about the results if I am actually rebooting. I don't get turned on as easily in public at least. I know that reboot is a good thing and that results can only be positive but I am anxious to experience the changes.
     
    Pixelated Victory, Aug 9, 2015
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  2. Aug 11, 2015 #2
    darkbob

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    Congrats on reaching 70 days of porn asbtinence!
    Flatline for me and a lot of people is really 0 sexual desire and often come with a depression...

    First of you should ask yourslef what did you start rebooting? what are your goals?
    Just to have better sex?

    The way I see it, is that if you're feeling confident enough you could try to approach girls and flirt with them, learn to know them, but avoid seeking sex at first.
    Just try to enjoy moment with them, at least for 1 or 2 months. That way you will have an even better control of yourself, and don't forget that after an orgasm you will have the chaser effect.
    Plus some people that just come out of a flatline and have sex tend to return to a flatline state, that is why I advice you to take some times before reintroducing sex.

    Also do not focus entirely on women, try to make pursuing you're passions and improving you're life the first priority.
     
    darkbob, Aug 11, 2015
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  3. Aug 11, 2015 #3
    SerpentEagleHeart

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    From my experience I would say there's no harm in waiting a little while longer. I got to 30 days before, started a mini-relationship and this sent me back into PMO cycle... But that's just me! Why not wait until 90 days?
     
    SerpentEagleHeart, Aug 11, 2015
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