First Time for men

LOL that is such a jimi hendrix thing to say

 

Yes maybe, but it doesn't mean this relationships were happy.

I think it also depends on what 'level' it feels good. There are fake feel-goods like porn. We just need some experience to detect them.

I'm not saying I'm right or you're wrong. I just think, sex is healthy as long you share a connection with your partner. If you just do it to escape reality or boost your ego then it's probably not healthy.

 

I had been in a seminary, 7 years is a row with no sex at all from age 17 to 24. Now, being by myself and with no control, I was curious about how would "that" (intercourse) feel, so I did it with a prostitute and decided "it felt good enoough". Anyhow, even before that, I had decided to find a girl and getting married. That was exactly what I did.

 

I waited, but maybe should have waited a few hours longer. After driving a couple of hours, we stopped in the first town of any size. There were a number of motels, but, thanks to a convention, they were all sold out. We found a cheap little old place with two rooms left. There were multiple reasons our room had not been rented earlier. We were glad that we had a few wedding gifts in the trunk; we needed the pillows and towels. The Dallas Cowboys were playing through a thin wall. The air conditioner had two speeds, on and off. The shower dripped, and the bathroom had no door. The old iron bed squeaked. Thankfully, we were in love as well as married.
The first time was awkward for both of us for a variety of reasons, including inexperience, but it was awesome and worth waiting for.
We both cared and kept working on pleasing each other as we learned together. It did not hurt to finally get to our reserved room for the next few nights.
I am glad that I waited. I wish that I had not fallen for the idea that I could use some P to spice it up. P quickly moves from spice to main course and wrecks everything.

 

My first time sucked, it took me forever to get hard (stage fright) and it felt awkward during. Plus I was late for the part time job I had back then, so the stress of that wasn't helping any. Needless to say it got better as time went on.