Finding and KEEPING a relationship is so hard

Reality my friend. I go through this all the time once I start dating again.

Most women you meet won't lead to anything along the road.

it sucks, but that's how the dice rolls. Men are chasers, and women are choosers.

 

Men don't have to be chasers as long as men got something to be chased after for

Let women be the chasers

 

Sounds good on paper, but that almost certainly never is the case in most instances of encounters.

 

It would be a refreshing change though if the roles were reversed

But ya I know what you mean

 

The way you can be chased is if you appear exceptionally attractive to a group of woman who you treat relatively equally.

I hooked up with so many girls when i was single. Not from club or bar outings either, just being polite, energetic and flirtatious with every girl i met.

I can't speak for older guys, i'm only twenty three. I'll acknowledge it has been getting harder with age.

 

Hey dude, I'm no different but that doesn't change the role of still chasing, and having women on other hand qualify you as a potential mate.

Lol at harder with age? dude i'm 25 and it only getting better. You must be comparing the college/university and high school days to picking up if i'm correct, lot's of house parties and such. I actually think think 25-30 is the pinnacle for most men as far as picking up women is concerned. it's the perfect balance between being older and tailoring to most women of young, and older brackets and also looking your best. 18-25 year old chicks are so easy for me to pick up. A lot of the cling fast when they find a guy who's relatively young has a career, house, and everything in his favor. This is my experience, a lot of young chicks between 18-25 like dating older guys when they get the chance, because like mentioned usually have their own pad to chill, car et cetera

I can't speak for everyone, but I have a very young looking face... good skin, structure and features which always put me in a bind between getting jobs and women. The older I get, I guess contributing to the rugged factor the more attention I have been getting from again young women, and older women.

 

I think the key is to go for someone who you honestly enjoy spending time with. Someone who makes you laugh and you make them laugh.
I'm with my best friend. We adore every minute together. He's a quirky dude and I can be controlling. I've realized this and with him I just let him be him.
We both accept the flaws and embrace them.
Sex in the beginning was amazing then PMO took center stage. Even when our sex life was faltering we still were best friends.
Now that he's 100+ days no PMO we have the whole package.
What I've learned over the years. Trust that gut feeling. You can't begin dating someone and have doubts they are right for you. When the right person comes along you know it. Don't waste time in a dead end relationship. Move on.
There is someone out there for you. I believe it.