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Finally lost my virginity

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by StayClean&Proactive, Mar 16, 2024.

  1. StayClean&Proactive

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    I had been talking to this chick for a week on hinge and she eventually asked me out within a week of talking to her. We drove around on our first date since she was having very bad period cramps. She then told me about her past including the fact that she was a former stripper which raised a red flag and how she had a history of hookups with many men in the past too. I overlooked these red flags and decided to give her a chance. She invited me over to her place to spend the night. She was sending me dirty texts and said that she wanted to have sex with me. I went to Rite Aid and got condoms the next day. Then once the weekend hit, I took an Uber to her house where we spent the night. We smoked a bit of weed and her place was very hard to sleep in considering the fact that it had a smoke detector with a bad battery so I was kept up all night by the chirping. We had sex twice, once in the night and once in the morning. She had walked around her room naked all day after the post nut clarity hit me like a ton of bricks, once I finished having sex with her, all those feelings I had for her went away. Not just that but the second date, which was her house wasn't as fun as what we had last Sunday. She basically spent the entire day either sleeping or watching TikTok on her phone. I told her the truth and said that I am not interested in a relationship with her anymore and she was sad but understood. It was honestly pretty boring sitting with her in her room watching YouTube and TikToks all day. Even though it didn't lead to a relationship, at least I finally have that weight lifted off my shoulders of losing my virginity (and not having to pay an escort for it). Losing your virginity at 22 isn't that bad, it's late but I've seen much worse.
     
  2. Yin&Yang-Yūki

    Yin&Yang-Yūki Fapstronaut

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    Use filters dude because i dont think its the same as hitting 300 days and leaving a message for people in the flatline or things he learnt. How is losing virginity eveqnt as winning a trophy. I dont think people can get notes from that seriously needing undergoing a full reboot and seeing a dude like you talking about a experience no one cares is weird
     
  3. ANewFocus

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    It sounds like she's addicted to sex like you're addicted to PMO.
     
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  4. Rainbow Warrior

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  5. SirQwerty

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    I'll never understand the insecurity people have about being a virgin. I'll say this, sex is meant to strengthen a relationship. When abused, it's unfulfilling, and pretty sad. Don't give up your life force (seed) to just anyone. Make sure you truly care for that person and the sex will be meaningful and bonding, not simply achieving pleasure.
     
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  6. JonaPeter

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    Exactly! This was basically what I was trying to get across in my comments towards the OP.

    This part though -- "I'll never understand the insecurity people have about being a virgin" -- that's easily explainable: the OP has a mindset of (or similar to) this: "You only live once. So make sure it's fun."
     
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  7. JonaPeter

    JonaPeter Fapstronaut

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    The first part of this comment sounds definitely right. The second part is possibly true. Not a bad guess imo
     
  8. Yin&Yang-Yūki

    Yin&Yang-Yūki Fapstronaut

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    Western term virginity is different then eastern.

    You can trick one fool or you can trick the whole population.
     
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  9. JonaPeter

    JonaPeter Fapstronaut

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    Bro are you talking to me? If so, what in the world are you talking about?
     
  10. HealingBodyandMind

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    Thanks for sharing your honest experience!

    I have experienced that “bored” feeling you are talking about after having had sex and are just sitting around the girls place doing something you don’t enjoy like watching TikTok, YouTube, tv, or some movie

    I don’t think yourself feeling bored is good enough ground to not see her again. Girls seem to like things like that - just sitting around doing kinda boring things -

    if you find her genuinely attractive, I’d say maybe give her another chance

    but if you aren’t into her at all, then perhaps it’s best you said what you said and ended it

    but don’t just end it because you were bored at her house! That feeling was just because you ejaculated semen from your body and were just sitting around

    and you also didn’t sleep well.. which will contribute to more of a bad mood

    but if you aren’t attracted to her at all, then like I said, perhaps best to end it
     
  11. hhh999

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    We shouldn't be judgmental of sex workers or former sex workers. If she told you that she used to be a stripper, she probably felt like you were trustworthy and wouldn't judge her for that.
     
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  12. Itsuki

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    Do you feel like a different man now?
     

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