Finally joined nofap

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by BGTYG, Nov 21, 2016.

  1. BGTYG

    BGTYG New Fapstronaut

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    I have been trying to quit porn on and off for a year now. I told myself at the end of last year that 2016 was the year I would quit porn. I have had streaks at a time, best being 40 days where I did not PMO. Looking back now however I realise I was not doing it properly and would still browse social media sites and look at photos that I thought would help suppress the temptation of porn. I have known about nofap for a while and my partner found out about my addiction over a year ago. She has been great at helping me through it but I have let her down numerous times with relapses and she is understandably still hurt. I have been 4 days clean now but decided to join nofap to make sure I am accountable and ensure that I make it this time. Hopefully this is the time I quit for good.
     
  2. rich899

    rich899 Fapstronaut

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    You're in the right place. I've been amazed how well it works to just come here and interact.

    Worst part of my life, PMO, has been replaced by positive interaction with a supportive community. If I pick up my phone to find P, I come here instead. A few posts in and I can't remember why I wanted PMO.

    Good luck and welcome.
     
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  3. BGTYG

    BGTYG New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks mate. I'm excited to see the full benefits of being completely free from my addiction. I think you're right, having a supportive community to share wins and if there are any, losses with and read success stories is going to be an amazing help.

    Cheers for the reply. :)
     
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  4. ILoathePorn

    ILoathePorn Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to NoFap. This addiction is a hard one to overcome. You will find support and advise here as well. My suggestion is to start a journal in the appropriate section and keep track of your thoughts and feelings and anazyle them. Especially when you are feeling triggered. Remember that anything worthwhile takes time. Take it a day at a time and don't panic. You can check the bottom of this post, there are some helpful links in my signature. Stay strong!